Most Helpful Guy
I don't hangout with people who have messy hair lol. It's too distracting and makes my OCD go nuts. I like things to be neat and precise and messy hair is not.
Most Helpful Girl
I guess it depends on how messy it is, but I don't like doing much to my hair either, especially since mine is brittle and it's hard to keep healthy. Judging by your profile pic, your hair doesn't look messy at all. Mine is much crazier. However, I do at least tie it back or do something with it when going out in public because I have kind of curly, frizzy hair that looks horrible most of the time when just left alone. While I am at home, I let it do whatever it wants.
Unfortunately, appearance plays a huge role in how society perceives you and they judge you based off of that. It may not be right, but that is unfortunately how it is. I work in a professional setting and have to find a way to tame my hair for that.