I broke up with my girlfriend because she made plans to hangout with her ex behind my back. I stopped talking with her and now she continues to try and contact me. She is looking for a way to put the blame on me. What should I do?
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you should ignore her...this is classic...whenever a girl looks to put a blame on you for something that you have NOTHING to do with...or she makes you feel guilty when talking to even someone of the opposite sex who is a friend, you best beware...9 out of 10 times they do this because they are truly hiding something from you...
keep ignoring her, why do you want secrets in a relationship - you're smart to do this...maybe she'll change, but she needs to be taught a lesson that doing that isn't fair to you and won't build trust...what the hell was she thinkign...EVEN if it was something so small...she hid it from you and turned it into something so BIG...shes trying to make you feel bad, just ignore her...and be careful I can sense some mean words coming your way...shes going to try and hurt you by saying mean things...its just how girls work sometimes...not all girls, but I've seen a lot of them work this way..myself and my friends both have had girls like this - its unhealthy...just understand you didn't do anything wrong here, she's teh one who went behind your bad...stay cool, calm and collective0