so I am in the club looking fly I catch guys looking at me head to toe and when I make eye contact with the guys they look away why? I know I am a pretty well maintained lady ..
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Society has taught men that its wrong to check girls out and that if you do you shouldn't let them find out.So you appreciated the attention and searched for eyecontact for them to approach you, what happened is that they took it as "oh no she looked, she noticed I checked her out" and turn away in the hopes you didn't notice.
They are usually the shy guys, they might be intimidated or have no idea how to approach you because your always around friends or not and don't want to intrude even if they where interested.
Give up on those guys and hope you'll meet some guys who have no issues with checking you, holding eye contact and then approaching you to get to know more about you.1