Like it's genetic, I have very average features, nothing stunning, you could not describe me as gorgeous, just average at best. I also have a very average and unnoticeable body, I have small boobs, big hips, and cellulite in my thighs (and no, cellulite has nothing to do with being overweight or exercising, I work out every day and watch my diet yet I still have cellulite it's genetic and read about it, can't be rid of). I'm not a 10, I'm probably like a 5 or 6.
I'm very insecure because I get little attention from guys, I'm outgoing and they like my personality, but sexually I attract no one. I don't have the type of curves men love. I always notice them staring at butts or cleavage well I have none :(
The thing is, I feel insecure and don't know how to stop, I can't change my genes and I don't want surgery. I know it's men's biology which makes them look and they really can't help it, but when I've had boyfriends I couldn't help feeling insecure either and feeling bad and comparing myself and picking myself apart (remember it's women's biology to compete for the attention of men, so it does hurt, even if we rationally know it means nothing, give us a bit of a break too guys :P)
The thing is I feel very insecure because there are so many hot women around which men notice, which makes me feel I'll never keep a man completely satisfied and that I'll always be feeling awful 'cause I'll always end up comparing myself to the 10s. Even ugly guys want the 10s, so even if they can't get them, well they still want them better than women like me :(
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The way you're thinking about it, attractive/unattractive, 1 to 10, is unhelpful. Try: How can I meet guys who might like me? What do I have to offer them?
Your biggest problem is your insecurity. Dump it. It inhibits you generally, and it's also unattractive. Also, many (most?) insecure girls break into symptoms once they get into relationships: b*tchiness, neediness, clinginess, control-freakiness. It's a red flag, if not an outright dealbreaker.
By the way, "I'm very insecure because I get little attention from guys" is written backward; cause and effect are reversed.
You can't change your genes and you don't want surgery. How about your approach? That's under your *complete* control. If what you're doing right now isn't getting you guys, then clearly you're doing it wrong. Do. Something. Else.
I know girls who aren't magazine cover models, by a long shot--a dumpy and scrawny lot--who don't lack for company because they're not afraid to let boys know how much they like them. Even if you're as ugly as a toe, you should at least have charm enough to flatter yourself a date or two. Plus, if you really want to keep a guy, you don't convince him that you're hot--you convince him that *he's* hot.
That's why personality is so huge; it levels the playing field. Convince me that I'm the stud I believe I am, and there'll be no *ss tight enough to take me away from you.1