Not is is NOT immodest. It’s appropriate and practically suited clothing for a specific environment! Why should we be uncomfortable physically just because some men may be uncomfortable mentally, it’s about time they learned to check themselves in those cases.
If they did check themselves and never noticed anymore I'm sure a lot of women would go back to more comfortable swim wear, the kind you can actually swim in without a wave taking them off or having to adjust them anymore. You would make the women wearing them to be noticed have a bad day with no likes though.
What I find laughably Ironic, is that women seem to be fine, wearing tiny little bikinis, in full view of anyone, in PUBLIC, yet when they wear essentially the same, under clothing, low-cut tops and short skirts, and a guy notices, somehow it is a 'sexual harassment' issue at work!!
Hard to say after being so used to it being perfectly fine with just about everyone. It often doesn’t cover more than underwear, but underwear in general is private whereas swimwear is not. It seems to mostly be regarding the motive, such as simply to feel more relaxed or to show off.
Well ladies, what else are you supposed to wear on a really hot day, at a beach? I mean maybe a one piece suit, but I never wore one so I don't know how comfortable you'd be, so I assume a bikini is maximum comfort for you
I don't know why less clothing means "comfort". Whenever I go to the beach, girls are constantly moving and tugging on their bikinis in order to fix it and put it back in its proper place. How is that comfortable/?
True. I guess it depends on the tightness or looseness of the clothing. Like I bet a skin tight speedo wouldn't be comfortable for us men to wear either. And baggy pants are always falling down, so we have to rejust them. It all depends on the material it is made from (itchy, etc.) and how well it fits
When worn at the right time and place there's nothing wrong with it if you're comfortable enough to wear it and feel confident and wear the ones that cover you to a decent extent rather than the ones that give you zero coverage
Immodest sure but thats only a problem if it bothers you or the social situation is inappropriate ie a bank. Others can think what theyd like but its up to you what you wear.
Well you're showing a lot of skin, so I'd say not very modest since it doesn't leave much to the imagination. Is it slutty looking? Not if you're going for a swim.
I have nothing against bikinis. If a woman wants to wear one, go for it. I personally feel too exposed like I'm walking outside in my undergarments so it's obviously not for everyone.
ofcourse not and i dont understand why people are always after girls to tell them how to dress... no body ever asks guys to dress up in a certain manner
@hornymike6969 I wear shorts if they go to my knees and I show off a small amount of chest and all of my arms. If you can see the line between my boobs or above the knee I feel uncomfortable and won't leave the house.
@hornymike6969 No he's practically my husband. He sees me naked daily. But there isn't a single other person I would get naked for. Except for doctors as long it was medically necessary
All depends on those involved, many girls are raised more openly without worries about covering up, same with guys that are around them. I was raised more conservatively, and a bikini caught my eye, when I met my wife she was a nudist and being totally undressed was nothing big to her.
Modesty is a way of behaving towards others. Wearing a bikini is a personal choice that involves that girl specifically. So, i don't think it should concern anyone else, although i completely understand why another girl might get jealous but that is a different story.
It is, but it's definitely not the least modest piece of clothing, especially considering how common it is, as well as its availability. So it being immodest isn't really a problem.
Usually you wear it at the beach, because you're going to bathe, what else would you wear? So no. But if you wear it other places i think it depends on how sunny the region is and im assuming its near the beach
I was only thinking of bikini and swimsuit, both equally revealing as its just the stomach thats the difference. And not even the figure, the only difference is you cannot see the shade of the stomach, birthmarks on it etc
I wouldn't, id be proud she's interested in me over all the guys drooling and not to say the least acknowledge that she's a free person allowed to do more or less what she wants just like me. I expect to be allowed to flirt with other gals every now and then without it meaning something, So why shouldn't she expect the same from me? I mean if anything it should just go to show that im special to her if she keeps choosing me over them. If i had a girlfriend
No! It's just normal modern swimwear. If someone takes offense that a person wears a bikini, then they are stuck in the past. So to them i would like to say the following: welcome to the modern age!
If that one person in a certain book, wouldn't have eaten that apple, we wouldve all been naked and couldnt care less about being modest or immodest. Lets go back to that. 👏
No actually, far from it. Man has been designing clothes since our incep. It started with animal skins and then they learned they could use plant materials. We have always worn clothing as a species. Even cavemen did.
@SirRexington dont take it seriously man. The moral of my commenr is that we shouldn't be so worried about how we dress ourselves and how others do, it would ve easier if we would all be naked.
The judging comes forward from shame and insecurity, there were no feelings of shame before the bite. So no , there probably wouldn't have been much judgement.
@SirRexington please just stop, you're trying to win an argument on a comment that wasn't even that serious. As i said im not religious.. but if it would go that way it couldve been better 😂
Please dont come with your facts, i know about them, im not stupid. But you're taking this way too serious, stop it.
+ i answered on how i thought it would make it easier , dont come with an answer like , again you are talking about religion, because yes i obviously do when i need to defend my own comment.. im not defending your real history comment am i?
These girls dressing for comfort, sho cares if someone else judges you Wanna wear a bikini, go for it! Wanna cover up? Do it! But dont judge each other for it, respect that you two have different boundaries and thats ok.
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Not is is NOT immodest. It’s appropriate and practically suited clothing for a specific environment! Why should we be uncomfortable physically just because some men may be uncomfortable mentally, it’s about time they learned to check themselves in those cases.
If they did check themselves and never noticed anymore I'm sure a lot of women would go back to more comfortable swim wear, the kind you can actually swim in without a wave taking them off or having to adjust them anymore. You would make the women wearing them to be noticed have a bad day with no likes though.
What I find laughably Ironic, is that women seem to be fine, wearing tiny little bikinis, in full view of anyone, in PUBLIC, yet when they wear essentially the same, under clothing, low-cut tops and short skirts, and a guy notices, somehow it is a 'sexual harassment' issue at work!!
Hard to say after being so used to it being perfectly fine with just about everyone. It often doesn’t cover more than underwear, but underwear in general is private whereas swimwear is not. It seems to mostly be regarding the motive, such as simply to feel more relaxed or to show off.
Well ladies, what else are you supposed to wear on a really hot day, at a beach? I mean maybe a one piece suit, but I never wore one so I don't know how comfortable you'd be, so I assume a bikini is maximum comfort for you
I don't know why less clothing means "comfort". Whenever I go to the beach, girls are constantly moving and tugging on their bikinis in order to fix it and put it back in its proper place. How is that comfortable/?
True. I guess it depends on the tightness or looseness of the clothing. Like I bet a skin tight speedo wouldn't be comfortable for us men to wear either. And baggy pants are always falling down, so we have to rejust them. It all depends on the material it is made from (itchy, etc.) and how well it fits
When worn at the right time and place there's nothing wrong with it if you're comfortable enough to wear it and feel confident and wear the ones that cover you to a decent extent rather than the ones that give you zero coverage
Ur body u decide
hell no!
Bikinis are the greatest inventions ever made!
It allows us girls to show guys how good we look, almost naked and bikinis make us feel great!
Only some religious uptight person thinks bikinis are immodest.
Immodest sure but thats only a problem if it bothers you or the social situation is inappropriate ie a bank. Others can think what theyd like but its up to you what you wear.
Well you're showing a lot of skin, so I'd say not very modest since it doesn't leave much to the imagination.
Is it slutty looking? Not if you're going for a swim.
I have nothing against bikinis. If a woman wants to wear one, go for it. I personally feel too exposed like I'm walking outside in my undergarments so it's obviously not for everyone.
There’s nothing wrong with wearing one at a pool, beach, lake, water park or anywhere that requires a person to wear swimwear.
there's nothing wrong with thong bikini's either
ofcourse not and i dont understand why people are always after girls to tell them how to dress... no body ever asks guys to dress up in a certain manner
Immodest in my opinion is wearing anything that shows naked thighs, cleavage and belly. Anything else I think is modest.
youve never showed any thigh or cleavage belly really?
@hornymike6969 No. Not without wearing thick tights or something.
youve never wore a bikini then what do you wear swimming
@hornymike6969 I don't swim. If I go to the beach I wear light clothing and let them get wet.
you wear pants and long sleeves all the time. or just dont have the body to show off. sounds weird to me
@hornymike6969 I wear shorts if they go to my knees and I show off a small amount of chest and all of my arms. If you can see the line between my boobs or above the knee I feel uncomfortable and won't leave the house.
wow you even have a boyfriend and still a virgin.
@hornymike6969 No, I have a boyfriend and we have been having sex for 7 years. We even have a kid. I'm just a modest woman. Sue me.
lol do you have sex with your cloth on
@hornymike6969 No he's practically my husband. He sees me naked daily. But there isn't a single other person I would get naked for. Except for doctors as long it was medically necessary
@ChgzDaniel: respect!
Much respect @ChgzDaniel Modesty is the best policy for me.
@ChgzDaniel respect. 😉👍
I hope I find a girl like you.
All depends on those involved, many girls are raised more openly without worries about covering up, same with guys that are around them. I was raised more conservatively, and a bikini caught my eye, when I met my wife she was a nudist and being totally undressed was nothing big to her.
Modesty is a way of behaving towards others. Wearing a bikini is a personal choice that involves that girl specifically. So, i don't think it should concern anyone else, although i completely understand why another girl might get jealous but that is a different story.
It is, but it's definitely not the least modest piece of clothing, especially considering how common it is, as well as its availability. So it being immodest isn't really a problem.
Usually you wear it at the beach, because you're going to bathe, what else would you wear? So no. But if you wear it other places i think it depends on how sunny the region is and im assuming its near the beach
"What else would you wear?"
There's a lot of different styles that have more coverage.
I was only thinking of bikini and swimsuit, both equally revealing as its just the stomach thats the difference. And not even the figure, the only difference is you cannot see the shade of the stomach, birthmarks on it etc
If I had a girlfriend
I wouldn't mind if she went out in the front yard in a thong bikini
I wouldn't, id be proud she's interested in me over all the guys drooling and not to say the least acknowledge that she's a free person allowed to do more or less what she wants just like me. I expect to be allowed to flirt with other gals every now and then without it meaning something, So why shouldn't she expect the same from me? I mean if anything it should just go to show that im special to her if she keeps choosing me over them. If i had a girlfriend
yeah I just hope she's the type that's confident with her body
No!
It's just normal modern swimwear.
If someone takes offense that a person wears a bikini, then they are stuck in the past.
So to them i would like to say the following: welcome to the modern age!
If that one person in a certain book, wouldn't have eaten that apple, we wouldve all been naked and couldnt care less about being modest or immodest. Lets go back to that. 👏
No actually, far from it. Man has been designing clothes since our incep. It started with animal skins and then they learned they could use plant materials. We have always worn clothing as a species. Even cavemen did.
@SirRexington yes, but if you start talking about the bible, we started of as naked and comfortable.
That would be a great achievement. People not judging you on what you are wearing , on being to naked or too prude.
I'm not talking about the Bible. I'm taking about the history of humanity. Like it or not, the Bible is not historically accurate.
@SirRexington dont take it seriously man. The moral of my commenr is that we shouldn't be so worried about how we dress ourselves and how others do, it would ve easier if we would all be naked.
@SirRexington tbh im not even religious. 😂
But it would not be easier. I don't know why you think that.
@SirRexington then people won't judge you as much based on what you are wearing, because thats something people like to do all the time.
Yeah now we will judge each other for our bodies!
The judging comes forward from shame and insecurity, there were no feelings of shame before the bite. So no , there probably wouldn't have been much judgement.
Again, you are talking about a religion. I'm talking about documented history.
@SirRexington please just stop, you're trying to win an argument on a comment that wasn't even that serious. As i said im not religious.. but if it would go that way it couldve been better 😂
Please dont come with your facts, i know about them, im not stupid. But you're taking this way too serious, stop it.
+ i answered on how i thought it would make it easier , dont come with an answer like , again you are talking about religion, because yes i obviously do when i need to defend my own comment.. im not defending your real history comment am i?
These girls dressing for comfort, sho cares if someone else judges you Wanna wear a bikini, go for it! Wanna cover up? Do it! But dont judge each other for it, respect that you two have different boundaries and thats ok.