I have no idea why guys make a big deal out of this. It’s like they think the world revolves around them. Women don’t give a fuck if you like it or not; THEY like it, so THEY’LL wear it. If YOU don’t like it, too bad. Don’t look.
Sure. should be fine. But don't get the bikini suit with strings. Because that is the risk of being naked or some asshole untying the string while the woman is not playing attention or they get untie while playing in the water etc. Try find a bikini suit mini locks on it, so no guy would try to pull it off of a girl or something life that.
Let them wear what they want. Is it jealousy on your part that they are confident in their bodies? I can't say, yhere are certain men who do not belong in a thong, yet they are happy. I don't really care what someone is wearing. Be comfortable in your own skin, you are awesome just the way you are.
I remember seeing two obese girls wearing thong bikinis at a pool... every bit as disgusting as a gross fat guy. And OMG. If you're obese you know it. Working out to go from obese to healthy? Awesome. DON'T WEAR A SPEEDO OR A THONG OR A BIKINI AND SCAR OUR EYES.
I think if you have a sexy or a damaged body, you still wear whatever you feel comfortable in even if you look bad in it.. Plus people have different POV so maybe you'll think that she look ridiculous but someone else will think that she looks stunning
I'm sorry , but just because it seems ridiculous to you doesn't mean it is ridiculous to everyone. If the woman is comfortable enough to wear it , she should go ahead and wear. Everybody is entitled to their own opinions , what is ridiculous and what is not ridiculous depends on one's perception.
No to sound stuck up but I have what would be considered a nice body but I'm uncomfortable with the concept of bikinis or men who wear those laughable speedo things. I don't want to see someone's g string up their ass crack attractive or not. A one piece is always more tolerable
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The biggest problem we have in this world is worrying about what other people think. We should all mind our own business. Wear what you want and be happy. I don't care what people wear as long as they're happy. They're bigger things to worry about other than that.
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What do you do when realistically your body works with nothing. Hide under a sheet. People should wear whatever they want. There will be consequences but seriously if someone has a problem with a women of any shape in an appropriate area wearing a 2 piece bathing suit it’s not her that needs to change. Just look away.
Nope just wear what suits you. Dont wear something that will burn everyone's eyes so to speak lol. I dont mean that as a jerk either cuz I know I ain't that hot I'm just saying wear what makes you look good.
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Agree but look at all the women here saying otherwise
CAN they wear what they want? Sure. Perhaps they just give a shit what others think of their bodies. What I don't understand is why they think they look good in them? Or maybe they know they don't, and wouldn't look good in any kind of swimsuit, so they just think... fuck it. I think it looks horribly sad to see a 350 pound woman in a bikini, personally.
@zombiejagër You don't have to be "looking" to "see it". If you sitting on your beach chair watching the waves and some walks in front of you, who is extremely large with layers of fat rolling out of a two-piece, you just SEE it ! You don't have to looking, and once I see it, I don't look any longer. The question was do we think women without "nice bodies" (the askers terminology) should wear bikinis. I countered by wondering why they might think they look good in one? By the way, there's a typo in my initial response. It should read "perhaps they just DON'T give a shit what others think of their bodies" ... which is fine.
@latinabutterfly96 YOU need to look at the question and see my corrected response. There was a typo. I don't give a shit what a woman wears to the beach - it's her body. I can certainly think whatever I want to think about it, however. MY response is wondering WHY a woman, or a man, would CHOOSE to wear something they don't look good in? All I can guess is that if you're obese or extremely overweight and think to yourself " hey, I think my body looks just fine", then you wear what you want and screw what anyone else thinks. Fine... I just think you're kidding yourself if you KNOW you're obese and think it looks just grand. NONE of what I said has anything to do with their personality or themselves as people.
No i re read your response and in all fairness i can understand it, sorry last time i read it was about 1.30am on a work niggt so yea i was out of line.
But its not always thinking "will i look good in this" more "i like that, fuck it ill wear it"
As long as she can make back to her vehicle without breathing heavy and worrying the kids with tht come any closer and I'll swallow u up look on her face then yeah sure why not also if I look and say omg god if she became exhausted during sex and passed out on top of me that might just might take my life I mean I don't want that to be my final moment to look like which is my arms and legs poking out her sides just trying everything to wake her up and the thing I hear is her snoring no no
I think that as long as it is not malicious, a person should be able to do whatever they want within the confines of the law. Whether you have an athletic bod, or if you are jiggly, do what makes you happy.
I would hope the people closest to her would tell her if she was showing too much. I'm all for a confident woman, but there are limits. I wouldn't be comfortable with children around string bikini's whatever shape the woman is in.
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That is what I was saying there are limits but some people do not understand that
They shud wear watever they like... Just coz smone find their body ridiculous, they shudn't stop doing tht... Everyone has the right to live.. and everyone is beautiful in their own way... just tht there are few fools who makes them a judge and start giving opinions about others...
Look. I am all for using only what looks good on me, but if curvy girls want to wear bikinis of two pieces and skinny ones boots that do not fill, it's their choice.
Superficial bullocks. No one should be limited or shamed do to appearances. What problem does an "ugly girl cause in a two piece? And what problem does a "beautiful" woman cause in a 2 piece. These are the real questions
I don't think it's a matter of should or shouldn't, if you're ugly should you cover your face? I get what you're saying though, at the same time people are into all kinds of things and just because you aren't doesn't mean that someone else isn't and that they should appease your tastes. They should do whatever they want to do and as long as they're just in their own reasoning.
Sure, it's good to work with the body you have. But some women have bigger concerns than their appearance, so their priorities are different, and that's their choice
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I have no idea why guys make a big deal out of this. It’s like they think the world revolves around them. Women don’t give a fuck if you like it or not; THEY like it, so THEY’LL wear it. If YOU don’t like it, too bad. Don’t look.
It’s as simple as that.
Sure. should be fine. But don't get the bikini suit with strings. Because that is the risk of being naked or some asshole untying the string while the woman is not playing attention or they get untie while playing in the water etc. Try find a bikini suit mini locks on it, so no guy would try to pull it off of a girl or something life that.
Let them wear what they want. Is it jealousy on your part that they are confident in their bodies? I can't say, yhere are certain men who do not belong in a thong, yet they are happy. I don't really care what someone is wearing. Be comfortable in your own skin, you are awesome just the way you are.
I agree!
I remember seeing two obese girls wearing thong bikinis at a pool... every bit as disgusting as a gross fat guy. And OMG. If you're obese you know it. Working out to go from obese to healthy? Awesome. DON'T WEAR A SPEEDO OR A THONG OR A BIKINI AND SCAR OUR EYES.
I will definitely do that! (-:
I think if you have a sexy or a damaged body, you still wear whatever you feel comfortable in even if you look bad in it.. Plus people have different POV so maybe you'll think that she look ridiculous but someone else will think that she looks stunning
I'm sorry , but just because it seems ridiculous to you doesn't mean it is ridiculous to everyone. If the woman is comfortable enough to wear it , she should go ahead and wear. Everybody is entitled to their own opinions , what is ridiculous and what is not ridiculous depends on one's perception.
No to sound stuck up but I have what would be considered a nice body but I'm uncomfortable with the concept of bikinis or men who wear those laughable speedo things. I don't want to see someone's g string up their ass crack attractive or not. A one piece is always more tolerable
The biggest problem we have in this world is worrying about what other people think. We should all mind our own business. Wear what you want and be happy. I don't care what people wear as long as they're happy. They're bigger things to worry about other than that.
What do you do when realistically your body works with nothing. Hide under a sheet. People should wear whatever they want. There will be consequences but seriously if someone has a problem with a women of any shape in an appropriate area wearing a 2 piece bathing suit it’s not her that needs to change. Just look away.
Nope just wear what suits you. Dont wear something that will burn everyone's eyes so to speak lol. I dont mean that as a jerk either cuz I know I ain't that hot I'm just saying wear what makes you look good.
Agree but look at all the women here saying otherwise
CAN they wear what they want? Sure. Perhaps they just give a shit what others think of their bodies. What I don't understand is why they think they look good in them? Or maybe they know they don't, and wouldn't look good in any kind of swimsuit, so they just think... fuck it. I think it looks horribly sad to see a 350 pound woman in a bikini, personally.
Wow, way to be a shallow bitch
See this is where i chime in saying. U dont like it? Dont look? Not ur body not ur problem
@zombiejagër Thank you. The world seriously needs smarter guys
@zombiejagër You don't have to be "looking" to "see it". If you sitting on your beach chair watching the waves and some walks in front of you, who is extremely large with layers of fat rolling out of a two-piece, you just SEE it ! You don't have to looking, and once I see it, I don't look any longer. The question was do we think women without "nice bodies" (the askers terminology) should wear bikinis. I countered by wondering why they might think they look good in one? By the way, there's a typo in my initial response. It should read "perhaps they just DON'T give a shit what others think of their bodies" ... which is fine.
@latinabutterfly96 YOU need to look at the question and see my corrected response. There was a typo. I don't give a shit what a woman wears to the beach - it's her body. I can certainly think whatever I want to think about it, however. MY response is wondering WHY a woman, or a man, would CHOOSE to wear something they don't look good in? All I can guess is that if you're obese or extremely overweight and think to yourself " hey, I think my body looks just fine", then you wear what you want and screw what anyone else thinks. Fine... I just think you're kidding yourself if you KNOW you're obese and think it looks just grand. NONE of what I said has anything to do with their personality or themselves as people.
No i re read your response and in all fairness i can understand it, sorry last time i read it was about 1.30am on a work niggt so yea i was out of line.
But its not always thinking "will i look good in this" more "i like that, fuck it ill wear it"
As long as she can make back to her vehicle without breathing heavy and worrying the kids with tht come any closer and I'll swallow u up look on her face then yeah sure why not also if I look and say omg god if she became exhausted during sex and passed out on top of me that might just might take my life I mean I don't want that to be my final moment to look like which is my arms and legs poking out her sides just trying everything to wake her up and the thing I hear is her snoring no no
I think that as long as it is not malicious, a person should be able to do whatever they want within the confines of the law. Whether you have an athletic bod, or if you are jiggly, do what makes you happy.
Not everyone. One can think of it as a reward for practicing a healthy lifestyle, staying (relatively) in shape.
.. I mean she can wear it fora all I care, but past all the politically correct mumbo jumbo, it's not guaranteed to have a positive effect.
I would hope the people closest to her would tell her if she was showing too much. I'm all for a confident woman, but there are limits. I wouldn't be comfortable with children around string bikini's whatever shape the woman is in.
That is what I was saying there are limits but some people do not understand that
They shud wear watever they like... Just coz smone find their body ridiculous, they shudn't stop doing tht... Everyone has the right to live.. and everyone is beautiful in their own way... just tht there are few fools who makes them a judge and start giving opinions about others...
Look. I am all for using only what looks good on me, but if curvy girls want to wear bikinis of two pieces and skinny ones boots that do not fill, it's their choice.
I am no one to judge.
Superficial bullocks. No one should be limited or shamed do to appearances. What problem does an "ugly girl cause in a two piece? And what problem does a "beautiful" woman cause in a 2 piece. These are the real questions
@loveslongnails needs to read this
I don't think it's a matter of should or shouldn't, if you're ugly should you cover your face? I get what you're saying though, at the same time people are into all kinds of things and just because you aren't doesn't mean that someone else isn't and that they should appease your tastes. They should do whatever they want to do and as long as they're just in their own reasoning.
Sure, it's good to work with the body you have. But some women have bigger concerns than their appearance, so their priorities are different, and that's their choice