I am just average and want to look desirable.
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1) Be confident and/or funny (Shy funny guys are equally attractive or better than Confident bland guys)
2) Work on your appearance.
- Shower before you go out during the day, brush your teeth in the morning, wear a light amount of good cologne, dress as modestly as you can to compliment your style, shave every day, wash your clothes when needed, use acne products if necessary, etc... Take care of yourself -> It's a "prequalifier" to seeing how you will treat them.
3) Work on your personality and be active in your life.
- Get out of your house and hang out with INTERESTING or GOOD friends (not the bums at the bars); take yourself on road trips to nearby cities (small or big; old or renovated); learn different sports/activities (sky diving, surfing, playing an instrument, etc) etc etc etc
4) Constantly try to learn and improve
- Never find error in a moment; learn from it even if it bothers you tremendously. It shows you are calm and level headed (highly attractive) and additionally it will help you be a better man to learn from your mistakes.
5) Seek advice from people you aren't romantically interested in
- If you aren't dating someone this is a great thing; but if you are dating someone you should heed caution. Some relationships may be more open to advice where others take offense when the relationship is spoken about (when you talk to friends or otherwise).