Why people assume that handsome guys must be gays?

Most of the people in my town assume that I must be gay cuz im taking care of my hair/body and cuz of my earrings. "dude you have 3 hairstyles what is wrong with u?" or "omg earrings on boyy kys gay", or one of my favourites "you are training so hard and have a good body but u have earrings and long hair (at least for them is long I guess) ? I don't really care about them since I'll move from this mentally disabled town soon but I'm just cirous why is that XD. Also they legit think I'm a freaking mentally ill or smth cuz I'm wearing earrings/ear cuffs.

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  • Well I think it's where you live.
    I have guy friends who has piercings and are good look and also change their hairstyles almost every time and they don't look and has never been assumed as gay

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  • girls tend to take care more in how they look than men do, so, when a man does something a girl most likely does, it's considered "metro-sexual", which is usually on border of "gay"

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    • But still like XD that's a hygiene after all, I prefer looking good than looking like some caveman

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    • that's not what i hear from women

      women like tall dark and handsome

    • It has difference between girls and women

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What Girls Said 1

  • Never heard that about the piercings..

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What Guys Said 8

  • Meh you just sound fashionable.

    Fuck their opinions.

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  • After browsing your account I can see why one would assume your gay

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    • Eh, the only gays thing I can think of is having earrings dunno xd

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    • Simply cuz of the both anime characters I'm shipping

    • Whatever way u wanna excuse it man for me a gay thought is a gay thought simply put meh

  • Wishful thinking.

    And because young women in particular (18-25) are not actually particularly attracted to good looks in men.

    Older women (25+) and gay men place a higher importance on looks in men.

    (I know I'm good looking ;P)

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  • Most straight men dont wear earrings so it's usually a clue

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  • Its a bit of a stereotype but it is changing with time

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  • Well l am very far from been gay and l would say l am handsome for my age

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  • who said that?

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  • Well I think it's where you live.
    I have guy friends who has piercings and are good look and also change their hairstyles almost every time and they don't look and has never been assumed as gay

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