So I have this friend. He has been homeless for a little over a year due to this economy. He has a car, not the greatest but it runs alright, He has a job, bathes, not everyday of course but enough to not be dirty. You would never know this guy was homeless to look at him.
Even his job has no clue. Anyway, he's a very strong willed person, even though his life hasn't been great he will still smile at you and tell you everything is fine. Doesn't seem like anything could bring him down. Although he does admit he gets lonely. His family doesn't really care that he sleeps in his car, but they let him do laundry and stuff. If you were to offer him a couch at your place he would just smile, turn you down, and tell you that he's been through worse, and he'll be just fine.
So to the point, my question is, do you think he could find a descent companion? Would you be willing to give him the chance? He asked me this and honestly I don't have an answer to that because I don't know. Be honest please. It may hurt his feelings to know that odds aren't very good, but he's a survivor.
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herre's the deal... all guys "know" cash and a great car, etc etc makes him more attractive...
and ALL women have learned to say "oh no, I just like a guy that makes me laugh, treats me well, I don't care about anything else" *lies*
there was a special on TV about relationships, and they tool guys pictures and shoed them on the street hundreds of times, remarkably... when all they knew was his LOOK, all the guys got more o less the same "1-10" ratig, + or - 1
They took a solid "9" guy... and lied at the bottom to say he worked at walmart, and made 10k a year... MAGICALLY, he became a 2-3 "rating"
I mean, HMMMMMMMM... you know?
they took a total loser guy, rating of 2-3... and they listed job and income at bottom with "250,000+ a year, owns his own software company"
MAGICALLY, he was a 7-9 all of a sudden... and you could SEE the girls eyes go all "dreamy" live on camera.
thats why young men lie about great jobs and stuff, and figure out ways to fake it. IT GETS YOU LAID
women are "hardwired" to respond to a "good provider" for their children. This USED to be a big strong aggressive guy, that could feed you while hunting. In modern society, this has turned into INCOME.
thats the reality.
I actually lived in my CAR for almost a year to finish out the last year of my second degree at my university, lol... BUT, I already had an old lady that was a lawyer *shrugs*
I didn't get a lot of "advances" because everyone knew I wasn't well off, and I was working and paying for school... MAGICALLY, like a magic wand was waved? When I graduated with high honors? And everyone knew I had a plum job waiting for me?
LIKE A MAGIC WAND WAS WAVED... (I passed, and even made fun of one I actually liked)
you didn't like me in my car? You now don't get to like me on my new harley, right? LMAO I just stayed with my regular girl.
PS - your friend is doing the right thing. welfare and handouts is no the answer. When your hungry, it gives you energy and imagination to become more successful.1