Is it weird that I make myself purposefully unattractive?

I hate any attention. Esp sexual type of attraction. And I like looking androgynous too. I try to make myself look unattractive too, I don't know it makes me feel more comfortable.
Is that bad? and why if you think it is?
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  • I can relate. Normally I dress as boring as possible. Once I went out in very fancy looking clothes and I felt very uncomfortable with all the attention I got.

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  • I have done this before I'm too nervous to say I. Don't like a guy and when a guy tries to hit on me I don't know how to respond so sometime I do this its just easier

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  • Whatever makes you feel more comfortable mate. If you're making yourself more comfortable and not hurting yourself, not a bad thing.

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  • If your goal is to not get attention then this is a logical way to achieve it. Nothing weird about that.

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  • I have done that but I feel that is wrong and comfort is not good and am trying to get out of my comfort zone now. Try to get out of your comfort zone!

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    • 4d

      How is comfort not good

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    • 3d

      I appreciate that you're trying to be healthier but you do not need to aspire to be like famous and rich people. None of them are actually happy. Just aspire to be healthy and sure powerful is good but in your own way do not push yourself to be someone you're not.

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      But being myself isn't giving me anything either!

  • It's just your way to tell that you don't want attention.

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  • I’ve notice a lot of girls are doing that maybe they don’t think people are taking them seriously

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  • Yes it is.

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  • Were you raped or something?

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    • 4d

      I was sexually harassed at a young age. Yes. Maybe that has something to do with it , but also low self esteem has to do with it too.

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    • 4d

      Well gee thanks I feel so much better...
      I've always liked being alone. Even before that bad encounter.

    • 4d

      I'm not trying to make you feel better or worse, I just wanted to say that you should consult with a specialist about this situation, this would be a far better option than looking for answers here. You'll need to open up about private things to get to the bottom of this and talk to someone with a degree in the field.

  • very strange

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  • i call troll

    and bullshit

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  • I do the same thing a lot

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