I don't have an issue with my build, but I was wondering about your opinions, ladies. Based upon whether or not an individual is a bigger guy, would you dismiss them for it? For example, I'm 6'2" and 245 pounds with a large frame [also note it is a mix of muscle and fat, but more of the latter than the former]. However, I've been told I look closer to 220. I do have an extremely healthy diet, and I do exercise.
I am aware that some females would classify larger guys as "teddy bears" but to what extent does this apply? I am content with my size, as it does have benefits. How much importance do you place on the weight of a male? Depending on whether or not you like it, dislike it or are indifferent, an explanation of your stance on the matter is appreciated. Thanks.
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Your the exact same height and weight my brother was for along time. I'd classify him more as a beast than a teddy bear. I hear the same comment a lot from girls and guys and it goes along the lines of, "he's 23?! That's a big mother f**ker!" lol. He is also a mix of muscle and fat. I agree that it has benefits because people are afraid of him. He just lost 30 lbs and I think he looks much better. That may be because I know he put on that weight due to a bout of depression. As for me, weight does not matter much to me with guys unless you have man boobs, a beer gut, double chin, etc. Basically if you look good naked, your weight is of no importance.0