So I'm an average looking girl. I'm cute but I know I'll never be Miss America or a model. So that's whatever, but when I'm trying to meet a guy how much do you guys pay attention to looks? Also how do I know if a guy is attracted to me...I've been told I'm pretty oblivious to those things.
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there were two or three girls so far that I felt attracted to after getting to know them. if they were just walking by, I might not have noticed but because they were friends of friends or showed interest in me first, I got to know them. what did they have in common? they liked to make jokes, they were smart and they could hang out and be one of "the guys". now bein one the guys can be walking a thin line but the balance was that they weren't over-friendly and they weren't high maintenance. they were just easy to talk to.
when a guy shows interest in a girl or vice-versa, its not that different. it starts with glancing over at them from across the room, and holding eye contact for a second or two (more if they're brave) then in a social setting talking to them one on one. whomever likes who or both will make that direct eye contact and smile while they're talking. some people are easier to read than others but its that gut feeling that lets you know if they might be interested too after a period of time or if your barking up the wrong tree.1