i want to know how I can bump myself up from an 8.5 to a 10. picture in your mind what a girl you would rate an 8.5 looks like, and then picture a girl you would rate as a 10. what's different about them? what does the 10 have that the 8.5 lacks?
this question is mostly about looks, but you can mention personality if you want. but please don't lecture me about how the right guy will love me for me and come along some day. I care about first impressions right now.
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You can't bump yourself up really. The only variable that you really have any control over is your weight. You can't change the structure of your face or body. You can't change your natural hair color.
I know it's a very depressing way to think about it, but it's true. With that in mind, it is possible to dress in a way that makes people believe you to be more attractive than you naturally look (either by making you appear more sexually attractive or of higher status). It all depends on what sort of guy you're looking to impress though.
Of course, if all you care about is your rating on hot or not, it is insanely easy to just take pictures from different angles with different poses that make you appear more attractive.