why even date if you're not with someone you really want to be with? how do people just go around from relationship to relationship like its nothing? I don't get how people can just go around and want to touch and kiss and whatever else they do, like 3 different people over the course of a few months to a year. all these casual relationships and hook ups. I don't even understand it. and its very common in my age group, college aged kids. I only could ever kiss someone I legitimately had feelings for. I want to to have meaning, not just it be procedure, like, "ooh well I guess you're my next girlfriend. guess its time to kiss you now" that's just what so many relationships anymore seem like. just casual, won't last, temporary, waste of time relationships.
i feel like its frowned upon to actually look for love in college, real legitimate, lets make this last forever love. but that's what I look for, and when you make an attempt to offer it to a girl, that finally you feel couple be right, she treats you like you're a stupid idiot.
when will things get better?! lol
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I think along the same lines as you. While other people at my college may prefer random hookups, I would never choose that path. I'm more of a monogamous, serious relationship kind of girl. Every time I dated a guy and didn't feel like the relationship could be long term, I broke it off so I could search for the right guy. I've been with my current boyfriend for four and a half years, and I'm pretty sure I've found "the one".
While legitimate relationships are no longer the norm in college, that doesn't mean they don't exist. I believe there is somebody for everybody, so there has to be some girl somewhere who is right for you.2