If I'm torn between 2 guys, does that mean I shouldn't be with either 1?

I have feelings for both, very strong feelings, but hesitant in getting in relationships with both for various reasons. Both are too short, hesitant about entering a relationship with me, and we don't always see eye to eye. Even though I've had years of history with these guys and can potentially see creating families with them, should I walk away now if I have these doubts and issues with them? If I don't know in my heart that I want to be with one and can't chose, it probably means it's not right with either, right?


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What Guys Said 1

  • Why do you need a label on what you have with them. Its more likely that neither one of them wants a relationship with you yet. Just keep what you have and if one of them really wants to be with you, then we will chase you and due time.


What Girls Said 1

  • Hehe, you literally don't see eye to eye...

    You shouldn't be with either.


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