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When it comes to dating physical attraction is just as important as emotional attraction. When I look at a girl the first thing I look for is a physical attraction because it is the easiest thing to discover. I can just look at someone and know if I am physically attracted to them or not. So at first I am more likely to go for a girl that is more Physically attractive. Physical attraction for myself however is different from most guys. What I look for is a pair of beautiful eyes (preferably blue) and smooth skin. Those are the two key factors that will rank a girl high on my list. From there I will ask girls out from most physically attractive down. That's when I start determining if I am emotionally attracted to them. I will continue down the list until I discover someone who has a prefect balance of both.
Now this description is not all inclusive, and is not my Ideal way of explaining how I see it. It sounds a little more shallow than it truly is. But it is the easiest and shortest way for me to describe my method of choosing who I will date and ultimately who I will marry (if I'm ever ready again).
As for how long your relationship lasts it all depends on how your emotional connection fits with what he is looking for.
I hope this answers your question well and gives you a good Idea of how your, I guess boyfriend now (congrats), thinks.