Feel free to answer anonymously if you want. =) Out of the following "qualities" in a guy, which ones do you think are the most important, and which ones don't really matter so much?
-Handsome/Attractive (looks good)
-Gentleman (opens doors for you, is more concerned about your comfort than his, etc.)
-Mature (doesn't freak out all the time, thinks things through, doesn't play mind-games, etc.)
-Thoughtful (remembers dates, asks about your day, worries about you, etc.)
-Funny (tries making you laugh, tells you jokes, does small things to see you smile)
-Doesn't smoke/do drugs
-Doesn't drink, or doesn't get drunk (at least not all the time)
-Successful (as in, career-wise)
-Respectful to others (doesn't treat others like sh*t)
-Rich (as in, already has a lot of money)
-Hot (knows how to turn you on and make you crazy)
Thanks to all who decide to answer! =) I'm really curious about which ones will get rated higher, and which ones will be at the bottom!
And also, please be honest. I'm not here to judge any of you based on what you decide. So if you want to put hot, attractive and successful, at the top be my guest! =p
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Doesn't smoke/do drugs
Doesn't drink, or doesn't get drunk
I don't care if my partner drinks or does drugs (depending on the type and frequency; I'm not going to date a heroin addict or an alcoholic, but if he drinks occasionally, uses pot occasionally, etc. I don't care).
Money doesn't matter to me, but I prefer to be someone whose satisfied/enjoys what they're doing in life.
I don't put up with bullsh*t, so I'm not interested in someone who plays games. And if someone isn't respectful, intelligent, makes me laugh (aka has a great personality), then it isn't going to matter to me how hot/attractive they are, I'm not going to be interested.