It's strange to me. I recently thought of it from a user who answered a question and it was like he was describing me. Girls who liked him weren't sure with what to do with him due to the qualities of good looking and being shy not going together. In my experience, girls tend to talk more to guys who are good looking/out going, okay or bad looking/out going, okay looking/shy. I typically act like a stone wall if I'm alone(I swear I don't know what else to do besides just standing there). I found out that 3 girls likes me, but they also act like a stone wall when I try to talk to them. Then I hear from their friends that I'm shy and I don't talk when they're the ones also doing that to me lol. Ah, I don't know. What do you think?
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Being in a shell is part of growing up. You might need your friends to break you out of your shell, but you can do it yourself. I was in a shell until I was 16 when I broke out people noticed and liked it. I would say that I'm not shy, but I am probaly still anti-social or a loner type guy.There's really nothing wrong being this type its actually can be better people can assume you as more dark and mysterious guy women like that its a challenge for them to try to solve. Maybe when you talk to girls your not saying the right things to get them interested in you.
Go up to one of them and say hey its that simple not fancy pickup lines or anything like that. Just keep it simple small talk like what are your college plans, what are your career plans ect.
Talk about weather and talk about yourself and tell her what's going on in your life. Keep it simple do not talk about politics and past relationships. When you talk stand up straight look her in the eyes do not look away first if you do it shows weakness that you may not be a fit to her. One of my favorite things to interest a woman is say what's the best thing that happen to you in last few months and she would elaborate and she shoots it back to you for say. I would say oh I got a new tv. Don't put woman up on pedestal and tell them how great they are trust me they know they a beautiful they already. I could go on forever, but they don't give me enough space to write. If you need more help on this just message me privately.2