Why do I attract more girls when I'm not looking to attract anyone?

Ok, I seem to attract 1000-times more girls when I'm not lookng for a relationship. If I go out and try to attract a girl, or find one to date, I seem to be far more likely to fail miserably? Is there a reason girls tend to be all over guys who arnt out on the prowl, and are merely in a more passive role?


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  • Girls don't typically like guys who are obviously on the prowl and look like they're just out to find someone to score with.

    So if you're not trying to attract anybody, girls are probably more attracted to you because you look laid back and not desperate.

  • Your nature is more relaxed and you're not as desperate.

    Women are attracted to guys who are not looking because they portray self assurance, and even a challenge.


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