Most young women date guys only with a few years age difference, not a 10 yr age gap. A 32 yr old man would always look better than a 38 yr old one.
@nella965 you already gave me your long winded, condescending woke scold lecture filled with indirect insults and condescension. No shit a 32 yr old man is younger than a 38 yr old one. No shit he isn’t going to look as good as he did when he was younger. Why do you point out the obvious? Because you just get off on putting us down. Let’s make a deal @nella965. I won’t comment on your posts if if you don’t comment on mine. You are teetering the line with trolling. Maybe you had some very creepy old guy do something very wrong to you. If that’s true, I’m sorry to hear that but quit saying nasty comments to punish via people via proxy. You have offered absolutely nothing of real value in your debate. I stand by comment that Father Time is much harsher on women than men. Ovaries don’t have a much longer lifespan than amoebas. That is one of the reasons many women are getting their eggs frozen nowadays.
I'm just here to clear up your arrogant delusion that older men do not look better with age up until a certain limited point. I'm tired of old guys like you hitting on young women like us as if you still have a chance. Didn't like what I told you? Deal with it
Typo: I'm just here to clear up your arrogant delusion that older men do not look better with age. Men only look better with age until a certain limited point. Then that's when they start going down hill There is way too much media glorification that men look better with age. It is NOT true for the most part. Very few guys in their 40s can pull off the sexy foxy look. So quit shitting on womens fertility while trying to make yourself feel better by lying to yourself that young women like guys 20 years older than them.
Women are simply up to a much higher standard compared to men. Its the patriarchy where they expect women to cater to men. Women must dress nice for men but not vice versa.
That's why i want to become a rich business employee and go to erotic spa massages after every working day - and not only 😀
@Unit1 you don't need to be rich, just use sunscreen, moisturizer, eat healthy and exercise. Also, stay away from stuff like alcohol or smoking.
Still need it to kill all the stress, that comes with paying a woman for doing a full body erotic massage for me. I have a plan set in motion already 😏
Actually your 100%. Guys have thicker skin than women literally men 4mm women 2mm so we don't need to take of our skin as much to have good looking skin as apposed to woman who have to use a bunch of anti aging creams to stop wrinkles from appearing
Anyone who takes care of themselves will age well.That sounds like a fact to me
Women: Men, you need to start practicing some self care 💅🏊 🧘💆50% of guys: Idgaf bitch! Don't tell us what to do!50% of men: I'll consider it/i agree/nice article!Then you see those 50% aging like butt ugly sugar daddies with beer bellies while the other 50% look pretty normal into their senior years.Here's the source:Men Need to Do Self Care More Often ↗
Oh and women tell us that because the women love us❤ i love them too!
Pinging the article author and lady @1truekhaleesi here for reference also.
@zeineboyy Really? I know plenty of guys my age or younger that started to develop wrinkles, same about girls. and I mean visible wrinkles, no just fine lines. The difference is that I have been using moisturizers since I was in my teen, I have also worn sunscreen plenty of time, especially in summer, now I wear it daily. Everyone needs sunscreen, the radiation will age your skin faster, no matter how thick it is.
Dang gurl! Emmily2396 is a knowledged lady! Hail to our beauty GOD!
Oh yeah, if you smoke you will age must faster than usual.
@Unit1 thanks! Everyone should practice good hygiene and take care of themselves!
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I feel Men age worse since they easily get bald head , grey facial stubble/hair that makes men look much older while women don't have these issues
@neuwser29 yes pretty much. Don’t know many old men that are desired except if they are a celebrity or super rich, but super rich old women are also desired.
And it is way more common for men to go bald or develop a receding hairline
Just like female fertility declines earlier, so does female attractiveness, the two are related. Attractiveness is fertility signals, right? Men look good at an older age because they are fertile longer. Women have things that sag too lol...Hate how so many women are in denial about this. y'all are born rich, you die poor, for men it's the opposite, and that's fair, because men are born poor as fuck. Why are men attracted to younger women but women attracted to older men? Any 16 year old horny boy can tell you that girls are looking at the older guys
@Shamalien yeah because beer bellies & male-pattern baldness (which begins in most men by age 35) is soooo hot "By the age of 35, 67% of American men will experience some degree of appreciable hair loss, and by the age of 50, approximately 85% of men have significantly thinning hair."I'm bisexual & my female crushes skew about 10 years older than my male crushes.
@mistixs bitch you blocked me stfu
@Shamalien not sure how balding early equates to "aging better" but ok.
@mistixs You can talk about beer bellies, but women get fat as well, so it's irrelevant. The only thing you can cling on to is hair loss. Yes, lot's of men lose their hair when they get older, and CONTINUE TO LOOK ATTRACTIVE if they take care of themselves. My friends dad was bald from age 30 and has slept with over 200 women, most of them after the hair loss. Stop being so fucking sad that you're wasting your youth and accept that women age worse than men, so better find a partner while you still got it. There are of course exceptions, my friend has a hot mom, but no women age 60 is pulling guys in their 20s, but men can do that.
@mistixs lol 'bisexual' your a fucking slut is what you are, and a nasty one at that. I wish I could not see your opinions because they are the dumbest, most insecure, most desperate shit I've ever heard and it makes me look down on women as a whole, but I have no remind myself, not everyone is this dumb bitch, some women are actually not stupid whoresbut you make it so difficult
hey jazzhands, hey kid, little naive child, listen upwomen are born rich, men are born poor. Men have the choice to stay poor or become rich (in both looks and wealth). The only way for a women to remain rich is to play her cards right, not waste her looks dating guys for fun, but find a guy worthwhile and then you will share his wealth as it increases.Don't follow these dumb whores like mixtixs, she will lead you into ruin. She's in denial.
@Shamalien What? lol when you swear more then 2 times in a sentence thats when I am unable to take you seriously. Anyway...I find it sad that you resort to complaining on a social media site that men age better just to boost your ego. Who f*cked you up today? Someone tell you you look like a granny?
bitch I didn't write this question, it popped up in my feed, and then some absolute slut of a whore who blocked me like half a year ago decides to unblock me just to tell me about male pattern baldness and COMPLETELY IGNORE all the terrible things that happen to aging females, and y'all expect me not to swear?Fuck you too then, don't take my advice, end up like the rest, day after day I can't really be bothered to give a fuck anymore, I should be taking advantage of you idiots like other intelligent men. Just my luck that I get stuck with a heart.
@Shamalien I'm actually quite open about being a virgin, but if that's slutty, then whatever 😂And any guy saying he's slept with 200+ women is probably lying. And yes, a guy aged 60 can pull in 20 year old women if he has money. But if a 60 year old woman has money, then she doesn't need a man anyway.
@mistixs oh fuck you're that one XD I may have had you mixed up with someone else, mybad. I mean I still stand by what I said as far as females aging worse, but you are clearly just some super weird anomaly that defies all convention and is generally the exception to the rule, because it's very, very rare you will see a bisexual in their 20s that is a virgin, in fact, you might actually be the only one alive in the world today, you should go to guiness and ask who holds the record for oldest bisexual virgin. I have some degree of sympathy for your weird fking situation, you are likely a foil, a devil's advocate type, quite like myself, I've never encountered another but I always imagined that at least one of us would fking lose it at the other in a very short amount of timeback to business, your logic here is flawed, you've just moved the goalpost by saying that the 60 year old woman with money "doesn't need a man anyway" because as I'm sure we both acknowledge, a partner is more than their possessions, few people want to die alone with no love.
@Shamalien most humans want love, but that is nature's way of getting us to reproduce. After menopause, women cannot reproduce anyway, so there is not as much drive to find love. There is a drive for human affection, of course, which can be filled by friends and family.Guys in their 60s, if they have money, can easily get a woman in their 20s, but that woman probably doesn't love them. There are some exceptions, but if they're physically unattractive (as are most older people) then a rich person is just a target for golddiggers.
@mistixs Love is more than just nature's way of getting us to reproduce. Love is natures way of keeping us around to look after the children. It's possible you might be mistaking love for something else, maybe you don't even know what I'm talking about when I use the word. It is rare these days, but it used to be quite common.
@Shamalien Please don't use the B word. It isn't polite.
@mistixs With all due respect, I would like to share my opinion here, if it's alright. I don't mean to stir up the argument, though, so I truly hope that that does not happen. The truth is rich older women want love, too (and many of them also want sex.). Have you ever seen "How To Be A Latin Lover?". Love and sex isn't all about money and babies. Like, don't you believe in romance? I mean, just a little? I ask this in all sincerity. Again, my intention is not to throw flames on the fire.
@Shamalien what about women who have extended fertility like they get pregnant easily in their late 30s into their 40s. Those women usually age at a slower rate.
@Jamie05rhs of course I do. But I read a study that most older women, who are single, are fine being single.by the way I'm not saying that the only conscious reason people want love is to reproduce. People want love because it feels wonderful. But why does it feel wonderful? I mean, why does food taste good? It's our body's way of encouraging us to eat (when it comes to food) or reproduce (when it comes to love).I don't think most older women have those urges anymore because I read a study that most older women are happy being single whereas most older men aren't, which makes sense bc older men still have a drive to reproduce & older women don't
@Shamalien "love is natures way of keeping us around to look after the children."That's only the case if you HAVE children. The women, whom we are referring to, are childless
@mistixs Okay, but I think you're missing my point a little bit. :). Love isn't all about sex. There's more to it than sex.Also, why do people stay around when there are no kids? There has to be a deeper bond.
@mistixs that study is just feminist trash, they push it on young and middle aged women to get them into the workforce and away from their kids so that the kids can be raised by the state loyal to the state not the family etc long march through the cultural institutions cultural marxism I'm sure you're familiarThe truth is, and I know this from actually talking to women, older women, is that women are far less happy being single at an old age then men. Both genders have a hard time dating the older they get, women can always find sex of course, but once past 35, man has a better chance of finding a long term relationship than woman. I've listened to thousands of hours of anonymous therapy call ins from older women just steeped in regret that they wasted their youth and ended up with nobody, while men their age are pulling younger women. I know the studies, I've read them too, they are bullshit and part of a larger agenda
Very good point.
Well, men do get fewer wrinkles, and we don't get cellulite. Just saying. I do think any comparison between men and women is unfair because we are so fundamentally different.
@Omega_brie where's the proof that men get fewer wrinkles? & men get beerbellies and male-pattern baldness."By the age of 35, 67% of American men will experience some degree of appreciable hair loss, and by the age of 50, approximately 85% of men have significantly thinning hair."
Men have stronger laticework of our skin fibers so we do not get cellulite and get less wrinkles. Learned this in a medical class at college.You say men bald but im not sure that really changes anything. Many women do not mind or even prefer bald or balding men. So im not really sure its a bad thing at all. I was worried when i started balding but tons of girls rub my head and say its so sexy so i stopped worrying right away.
Beer bellies are extremely easy to avoid, just don't be a complete slob. Balding you're right about, but most women don't care much about baldness. Many even find it sexy--try finding even one guy who finds wrinkled skin sexier.
Sorry but you're so wrong on this point. Women are attracted to younger men much more than older men in their mid to late 30s. 98% of my female friends in their 20s are dating guys under 30. I consider myself to be one of the few in my social circle who likes older guys. But my max age is 33.
@nella965 I was referring to my own preference - in which I've never developed a crush on a man less than 8 years older than me, or a woman less than 19 years older than me. I'm not saying this is the case for all women.
@nella965 maybe they just didn't meet an older man or something? From my experience its not true because i had to work hard to get with the few younger girls i was with when i was young. Now in my 30s i am practically dating a new girl 10+ years younger than me a week and i feel like im not having to do much work at all. Like being older is a huge attraction to young women.
@bamesjond0069 That's not true for most younger women in general. We tend to date guys our own age. I live in nyc and the usual age difference I've seen in public amongst couples is 1-5 years. Rarely do I ever see a couple with a huge age difference. Maybe you just looked better with age (some certainly do, including women) but I don't think accounts for most guys in general. Its a fucked up stereotyped lie that the media likes to spread. Women in their late 20s tend to date guys in their 30s rather than us younger women.
@nella965 ahh no. Nyc is i believe is like that. Elsewhere it is not. I used to live there too but its a very condensed area of liberalism materialism and feminism. You forget outside of a few places like that, most of the country is extremely different. Most other places people dont care about being so PC and dating "appropriate" age gaps and more just date whoever they want. And older men make better providers and younger women are more fertile. And here in the country many people still get married for the express purpose of having larger families and not just for love and to have dual income no kids lifestyle.
@bamesjond0069 Millennials are getting married increasingly later nowadays. Most young folks do not marry in their 20s anymore. Overwhelming majority of women in America are also no longer housewives. Millennials are much more educated than prior generations and we make less money too. All older folks love to cling onto the deluded idea that younger folks want to date them. But its not true. Anywhere I go, I would see married couples no more than a few years apart. Couples with 10 yr age differences are rare. And a lot of it has to do with the inability to relate to each other mentally due to the age difference.
@bamesjond0069 I know the media loves to talk about womens fertility but keep in mind that your sperm quality also diminishes with age too. As a young 24 yr old, I also worry about the quality of my offspring too. Most young women do not find older guys to be as attractive as younger guys. Men start showing signs of aging after 33. Plus if I am looking for a life companion to spend the rest of my life with, why would I marry someone who is much closer to the nursing home than me? Why would I marry someone who I'm' gonna lose my sexual attraction to in just 5 years into the marriage? This is all baggage that older guys bring to the table. Sorry to say.
@nella965 i mean none of that applies to me. You forget not all older men are fat slobs with health issues. Especially in their 30s. That's just delusional. And like i said if the average millenial likes a few year gap and in nyc there are mostly small gaps, that means in the country there are larger gaps to make the gap 5 years or whatever. I don't know what to tell you but most young girls go for older men. It doesn't matter what you like at all. Nobody is saying all like older men, just most do. Also most dont realize it and once we go out a few times they are like wow this is awesome im never talking to a man younger than 30 again. 🤷♂️
@bamesjond0069 Most girls DO like older men, but just a few years older, not 10 years older. Men are deluded that the older they are then the more likely they can get young women. It is not true. I'm 24 and the max age is 33. And its not gonna change until I hit 30. There is a difference between "older " guys and "old guys". Older is a few years older, not 10 years older. If you're 10 years older, you're an old guy.
@nella965 if you say so. You should probably tell all the 18 to 22 year old girls hitting on me and going on dates with me to stop it. 😂
@bamesjond0069 How many 19 yr olds do you see going out with 35 yr olds?
@nella965 none. But i see lots of 18 year olds going out with 32 year olds... thats all i really pay attention to.
@bamesjond0069 I have never seen an 18 yr old going out with a 32 yr old. And if there is such a relationship, he's most likely just using her for sex.
@nella965 yeah yeah thats the old lady pitch a fit nonsense. Its not likely he's using her for sex any more than a younger man. In fact its less likely. You are very cluless about men.
@bamesjond0069 Firstly, there are no guys in their 30s who would date an 18 yr old. Secondly, no decent minded or normal 32 yr old man will date someone that young. The fact that you would take an 18 yr old (which is basically a kid) seriously as a lover shows you most likely have issues. Only a loser would date someone a kid who you cannot relate to on a mental level at all. Plus, don't tell me that I'm throwing an old lady fit if you just threw an "old man fit" just prior in the comments.
@bamesjond0069 When I was 20, I dated a 30 yr old. Back then, I didn't take him seriously as a date because I didn't actually like him. When I turned 23, I realized that we had absolutely nothing in common, I acted immature, and knew nothing about the world, no life experience either, I didn't even have any income. Years later, I realized that I honestly could've done way better than him. I could have dated a guy just 2-3 years older who I would be able to connect with so much better. And the 30 yr old guy turned out to be a loser with issues. You'd really need to have very low standards in order for you to see a kid as a fit for a date. From my experience, only losers would have such low standards.
@bamesjond0069 And plus, we younger women, are sick of getting hit on by guys as old as 38 or 45 because assholes like you love touting around that younger women like older men. You are actually undatable by us when you reach that age. So stop shitting on womens fertility and suck your arrogant assholes back in. You're aging too. I'm sure I see an old man fit coming on again...
@nella965 be a happy loser or a sad non loser. Hmm hard choice. Nah im a loser all day lol. Strangely lots of girls my age must love losers because they try to talk to me still.So you dated the wrong guy his age had nothing to do with it. I have lots in common with young women. I have nothing in common with women my age.And its weird you think very strict standards you don't qualify for are very low standards. If they are so low why don't you qualify for them? Smh. You have no logic.
@bamesjond0069 Well I had nothing in common with the guy because I was a kid. How can you mentally connect to somebody who is still mentally a child? Unless you are also a child on a mental level. An 18 yr old has a drastically different outlook on life compared to someone their 30s too. And plus, young girls don't tend to take relationships very seriously at that age because they know that have a lot of time to date until we find "the one". Just because the girls hit on you, it doesn't mean that you both will work out as a couple. I flirt with a 45 yr old man all the time at work but I have no intentions of dating him. Maybe sex, yes. But for marriage? NO.
@bamesjond0069 And plus, you cannot insist that you have very high standards if you would date someone who is still mentally a child, you have absolutely nothing in common with, no income, lacking in maturity, no life experience. No decent minded woman would want to date you either if you're looserish enough to date a kid. Sorry but its the truth... Good luck
@bamesjond0069 "And its weird you think very strict standards you don't qualify for are very low standards. If they are so low why don't you qualify for them? Smh. You have no logic. "Who said I didn't qualify for them? I just turned 24 two weeks ago. I have way more time to date compared to you. You're gonna look like shit in the next few years.
@bamesjond0069 "So you dated the wrong guy his age had nothing to do with it. I have lots in common with young women. I have nothing in common with women my age."The only thing you would have in common with your women is SEX. You have no standards.
@nella965 smh why would i have everything in common with them? That's retarded. I'm wealthy why do they need an income? Makes no sense. I spend my time traveling, playing sports and sleeping in late. What do i have in common with some 30 year old doctor? Eww gross. I need a girl who wants to go on vacations and go rock climbing and goof around with me until we are ready to have a family of which id like 4 or more kids. So basically women my age have nothing to offer me because they can't do any of that for me.
@nella965 my last girlfriend loved sponge bob which i was too old for when it came out and it made no difference. If you think relationships are based on if you have common tv shows and stuff you got some serious problems and i wish you luck.
Men age worse since they easily get bald head , grey facial stubble/hair that makes men look much older while women don't have these issues
Yeah the lack of sleep I 've been getting for years is messing with the area below my eyes among other things. . I'm starting a CPAP so maybe I can go back to looking younger than my age again. Hard to live on 4 to 6 hours of sleep for almost 10 years.
True. Men age worse since they easily get bald head , grey facial stubble/hair that makes men look much older while women don't have these issues
I answered the wrong question 😆
Also, I'm currently beginning to have a receding hairline. So if anyone doesn't like that then please reject me now.
manual labour = more stress, women could do plastic surgery (fat graft) and if done right, she could look 40 in her 20s.
whoops i mean 20 in her 40s
I wouldn't consider plastic surgery aging better. Some men do that too. I think they must have been looking ugly if they do that though both men and women.
doesn't makeup cause breakouts and aging though?