How can an ugly person be confident?

[Anonymous]

Focus on other things. There are a million other things you could be doing than focusing on your looks. You could be learning a new language, learning new recipes, working on your career, making more money, traveling the world, meeting new interesting people, researching random but interesting topics on anything from math to art to geography. Seriously, your looks are what's on the surface. Do something to make that brain of yours more attractive, and you'll find yourself not even caring about how you look anymore.
For example I look so average. And for the longest time I thought I was ugly. And truthfully I don't put in effort like the other girls and I now for a fact I don't even want to since it's too money and time consuming. So I'm working on moving out rn, learned a new language in a year, working on my bettering my life and studying what I love and not giving a fuck. Giving a fuck about everything is what's caused me so much horrible depression. I just slowly stopped giving a fuck. From the way I talk to the way I dress (not in a bad way. Just don't care if people will like my outfit or not etc. I dress plain as hell and I don't care).

[DontFvckingAskMe]

7,6 Billion people in this Planet and no one of them is ugly. Beauty ist irrational, cause Personality is what Matters. Work on that.

1. Look at what you like or not about your apoearence.

You Like your teeths the most?
Then keep them Clean and White.
You dont like your Body?
Make a diet or Work Out.
You don't Like your Hair?
Hair transplant, Vitamins, eat healthy, Extensions.

2. What do you or Friends and Family Like about your Personality? Go and ask them to tell you the truth.

3. Start meditating and ask yourself who you are and where you want to be in five years, Work for that Goal until you bleed.




People that are less attractive but Clever and friendly Warnung respect by Others for their characteristics but not for their Looks.

Looks doesn't Matter aslong you are Comfortable in yoursekf and nothing other is confidence about.

[bigteambattles]

Alright, so what has worked for me might not worked for you. But I pretty much stopped giving a f*ck about what other people (besides friends) say. I'm not a handsome guy as well, but somehow I have dated girls that were out of my league and slept with more women than my friends that are 6ft+ and better looking than me, and at the time I didn't even know why and wasn't aware that I was confident but according to my friends and past women, it's my "vibe". So whoever called you ugly are probably having low self-esteem as well because no one who is confident will go up and call someone ugly in person unless they are somehow miserable in their own way. As for boosting your confidence, take pride in something and take care of that something. So for example, something I'm proud of and I take care of is my car. You gotta find something to be proud of besides looks and what not because looks fade. Maybe take pride in knowledge or your hobby

[Effably]

Probably by not thinking of oneself as an ugly person first and foremost. Before I even consider my looks I'm already intelligent, funny, charming, stimulating, capable, professional, goofy, enigmatic and most of all if I so choose also effable as heck.

As far as just boosting the visual confidence, as a guy getting a new wardrobe and flattering/good clothes does wonders. By that I don't mean expensive but a style. You'll be shocked how easily that lifts your overall visual appeal. Seen people go from 2s to 7s by just getting a new style. Suitably enough this tends to be a fun and easy (if somewhat expensive) activity to invite a few pretty girls (or guys) along for. Fashionable people generally like to style others.

[Aiasis]

When you stop putting value to what strangers may say or think about your style and your life goals, then confidence appears. When you are satisfied that you are the best person you can be with all of your successes and failures, then confidence appears. It's when you see the good and bad about yourself and love yourself for being that anyway. Now, I'm not talking about cockiness. Cockiness or arrogance is when you feel like no one can compare to your greatness. That's when the scale is tilted too far the other way. Be the best equilibrium for you. 😊

[KaiserXVI]

Pretty simple really. Not giving a fuck about the other side's opinion of you. You are you and if you aren't confident, then your looks are a part of you that feeds into narcissism. You have to have that one little switch in your brain and activate it. Confidence comes from within one's self and if you're asking that question, then on the inside, there's a bit of ugliness.

Visuals, while important, are not everything. Sometimes, "Ugly" people can look "pretty" or "handsome" or just "interesting" because confidence is a massive part of attraction.

[DJZest]

On a regular basis, I stun women with my mere gaze; stop them right in their tracks.

Confidence is a byproduct of mental power which is a product of spiritual presence. Knowledge, foresight, faith as well as love, wisdom and truth are what truly matter in the context of infinity, and therefore a person growing in these areas will naturally overcome anything and everything.

Nothing in the world can help you achieve what you truly want to achive but looking for answers withing yourself.

[The_Sword]

your question is full of black and white thinking... confidence is not a light switch that it on or off, even attractive people aren't confident at everything... its context specific.

Everyone thinks it would be nice to have an excuse of external validation that gives them permission to feel positively, where all of their expectations are likely to be provided for, so they feel in command of their life. This is a short lived fantasy if it requires external support to achieve it... Real confidence comes from within, it doesn't matter what you feel you get permission to feel from your surroundings.. A lot of things that you thinks are confidence, is closer to a social-trick than genuine confidence.. you're thinking more about 'popularity' maybe.

[Cuorisuo]

Lol. In school the ugly ones who have lots of confidence are the ones who storm the light.

In fact the more confident they are the less uglier they b'cme 😆 it's like a sugesstion in ppl's mind yes it may be ridiculous but they somewhat b'cme handsome and the handsome ones look normal when u compare them.

[locoloco68]

A look for somebody for everybody even ugly people get laid once in their life you ever hear the song people are still having sex there's always somebody out there for you whether or not you cross paths cuz like the song says everybody's had a once in their life at some time and if you're that bad pay for it cheaper in the long run can be better off then getting married and divorced within a couple years after you put your heart in it she'll break it and it can cost you a ton

[thenewgirlll]

Well confidence makes you sexier (helps with body language).
First of all.
Smell good, always. You will be more attractive
Get the best haircut for ur face
Get a beard if u look better with it or trim it always if u don’t
Dress good, go on Pinterest for inspo
Work out and eat healthy
Believe me you will feel good and you will look way better.

[Sir_Laughsalot]

If it's someone else's opinion that you're ugly, i suggest you not to take it seriously, but if you see it in yourself that you have room for improvement, always go with it... the other person might be someone who is jealous or downright a horrible person with a superiority complex, don't pay attention. Just do what you gotta do and everything will fall into place.

[Gsm24diecast]

I find it reversed actually, the egoistical "popular people" that only focus on their looks rather than their personalities and they are usually social however they usually lack confidence more so than someone that has less attractive looks than them.

[skeetskeetskeet]

Confidence comes from within you... doesn't matter what you look like or think you look like because if your confident your prince fucking charming in your head... strangely enough if you even pretend your the shit people will follow... further building your confidence

[Bananaman177]

You have to make the basis for your confidence something else besides your appearance.

You have to have the attitude: "I'm not handsome, I'm too busy being useful for something instead. You want handsome? Go find a mannequin."

[Sevenpointfive]

the people that i know have the most attractive partners.

ugly people know that they are ugly and embrace it. they use their personality to win over people. just be a good person

[MissDawn7961]

by having a good , loving , caring , forgiving , understanding and compassionate heart to give to that special woman ! Thanks

[GloriaMc]

Whatever you mean by that only thing I could say accept yourself completely because " for those that matter doesn't mind for those that mind doesn't matter.

[Legendhardon]

Just forget about it no one is perfect, don't feel bad im not very good looking and back then when i was your age pretty white girls were talking to me. I dont think your uglier than me😂😂.

[koolbeanz]

Uhm... self love.
Everyone thinks theyre ugly at some point.
Confidence and personality actually make a less attractive person in someones eyes more attractive. But you also gotta love yourself and get some TLC in this bishhh

[Anonymous]

Don’t think your ugly
when you think that you automatically look uglier to yourself
just fake it until you make it is what I was always told
you truly have to love yourself in order to gain confidence in yourself

[1stranger]

You may be ugly (I don't believe it) but that doesn't mean you're a bad, untrusty, liar, dishonourable, egoist, disgraced, thoughtless person.

[Veronica__Sterling]

Confidence is what makes one sexy.
Confidence is sexy.
It had nothing to do with looks.
Love the way u are and accept yourself the way u r.
Have a good personality and positive body language.

[natrickk]

Anyone can be confident. It has nothing to do with looks, age, or status. Confidence is earned in part by being true to yourself, and believing in yourself.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Yup I don't know why but it happens and sometimes due to their confidence they get all the girls too

[leahzrc]

when you stop caring about what other people think, you start caring about what you think, that is confidence after all

[Cactusqueen]

Have the attitude that you don’t give a fuck about others perception of you.

[lofii]

Tell yourself you're ugly and you're proud while srandingbin the mirror

[DiscomfortZone]

Easy! Use the female cheat. Work out, get "a perfect body", and nobody will care how ugly you are!

[snappysierra]

In my experience just give up on dating. No relationship just focus on having shelter and having food to eat.

[Nikki1989]

Stop focusing on your looks. Confident people don't give a shit.

[Furuok]

THE GYM!! and try not to talk to people. Proper workout an proper stretch and DON'T FORGET THE DEODORANT!!! please now build something?

[Games_]

Just stop caring.

Get so insecure to the point you stop caring

[Alearu]

Humor, my friend that's the answer you're looking for.

[Dali-chan]

Money and personality lol

[Katebfun]

It's called Swagger- google it. Own it express it.

[arabgoddess]

They can be and when they are, they're attractive

[TremorJay]

The same way an attractive person can be confident

[Zweihander]

Become stronger than anyone else.

[Anonymous]

Well if you feel insecure and not confident in the way you look maybe you could try and do something which will improve they way you looks which might improve your confidence.

[Ciel66]

why you see yourself ugly

[gym4ever]

just forget about it.

[Shamalien]

strength

money

power

[MountainDewMan1]

Just don’t use a mirror. You will never know.

[Lissy4K]

Watch spongebob, he's ugly and proud too

[rapfan107]

Personality can overcome looks.

[zozo03]

They don't gotta lot to lose

[Anonymous]

Ugliness is subjective.

[Hannajenky]

I mean look at trump lmao

[Anonymous]

Still tryna figure that 1 out

[crmoore]

Yes.

[waymoretheoutlaw]

Good Question that's what I'd like to know myself

[Anonymous]

get hot people to be nice to you