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Over 300 votes, each vote was responsible for 1/30th of a point.
Out of 300. 2850 versus 2760.
That would mean, for example, that 90 people who rated you 9, rated her 10. But the other 210 people rated you the exact same.
You probably won't get higher than her. But what you can do, is tell her that gloating is unattractive. And with an average of a 9.2 you've got nothing to worry about. Make up the difference in your personality, and be the bigger person about this. Stop whining about a 0.3 difference, and grow the hell up and don't let her inane bragging get to you. 70% of the people surveyed rated you both exactly the same.