I personally like the last two girls the best. I like girls with just a little bit more. But guys are entitled to more fit girls too, it's just not something I'm as attracted to
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I guess I am a rare breed but as a gagger said there are plus size models and I argue there are for a reason. One things for sure the girls I will date will be easy to find, cause I'd date a fit girl and others that have the extra weight. So I guess I'm in a good place lolz
What do you think of a girl gaining weight to look more attractive vs. Losing it?
Personally I'm not too bothered by a woman's weight. As long as they are comfortable with it I'm fine.
What bothers me more is those who are obese or hitting the morbid category expecting that I will make sure I hit the gym 4-5 times a week to look in peak shape, that they can sit on their arses while I work mine off, that they get to make those demands and all men have to accept it but are allowed to make none of our own demands, usually nothing too major just if I have to look good for you then that's the least you can do in return.
What I care about more is how the woman treats me herself, am I the one she would choose out of all other options, if she looks at me and compares me to other men am I better than them to her.
I own two houses but does she think that a box under a bridge would be ok as long as we're together. I own two cars and a boat (actually a reasonable sized yaught), does she think that she'd rather walk as long as I'm holding her hand. I have enough money that my grandchildren will never have to work, but does she think that two jobs will be ok as long as I'm there for her when she needs me. Those are the things that I care about more than weight or looks, sadly though there aren't any women like that actually alive.
I agree with you. I think they look better thick. I'm not attracted to thin girls or athletic girls. But others do not share our views and women are not entitled to gain or lose weight because of our preferences. Unless of course they are our partners, in which case our opinion matters to some degree.
I don't get it. When I was overweight no one wanted any thing to do with me because who wanted a "blubber pot"? So I am not fathoming these girls as being more attractive by being overweight. Once they gain that weight it is going to be hell trying to get it off again. Being overweight just puts more work on your heart trying to pump blood through arteries clogged with cholesterol and fatty deposits. That and being that heart attacks are the #1 cause of death in women, even over cancer, it doesn't make sense that any woman would want to be fat to be attractive. Or is it big girls = big boobs that is the attraction?
Exactly this. There is nothing sexy or attractive about essentially treating your body like trash and over-eating or just eating rubbish. It shows a lack of respect for your own body.
That woman in those pictures is a prime example. So much photoshop was done there to cover the cellulite, mottled skin and the other vast side-effects of being vastly overweight. There is nothing attractive about her whatsoever, and modelling sexy lingerie is only highlighting how awful it is to think it's okay to be in such a state of health.
The one in the orange is not photoshop she actually instagram model or whatever she actually looks like that I think she hot but I do not think girls should be eating more to be considered attractive
Depents. Personally I LOVE curvy models. My opinion on the first girl is that (I read an interview that she gave in a magazine 2 years ago) is that she looks WAY better after putting some weight on. Cause before that SHE admitted that she was an anorexic and now finally after all this years she feels comfident in her body.(Honestly she should. She is fucking GORGEOYS now!) My opinion on the second one is that the pic just isn't flattering. And the third one looks HOT!♥️♥️♥️
curvy models only became common in the past few years to pander to women. the industry has been criticized by health officials for promoting unhealthy bodies.
The reason you see "plus size" models is because in the "west", there are tons of plus size girls and they buy clothes. First, models were size 0 to 4 or 6, which didn't represent the "American woman" at all. Now, "plus size models are anywhere from size 8 to 16. The clothing industry just got "smart" ... they figured out how they can sell MORE clothes by showing girls in THOSE sizes than in 0 to 6 sizes, because the average size of women in the USA is 16 ! So they get behind the "body positive" movement and voila... more sales. As always, follow the money. You can TELL me all day that size 16 looks hot, and maybe it does to you, but it won't to me, no matter WTF Cosmo says. Neither did size 0.
Beauty and attractiveness is purely subjective. It all comes down to what's your personal preference. Sure, society virtually always has an "ideal", "standard" or "norm" but that changes just like fashion. Trying to look like the "norm" or chose partner there after without any regards to what YOU actually want, just caring about what others think, is a losing battle no matter what. Because that norm WILL change, and you WILL be left behind or doomed to forever chase a ever-changing ideal in order to please some form of abstract human collective opinion.
So in my completely subjective opinion, I find that girls with a bit of extra weight or curves are more attractive. Almost always, for example models like Ashley Graham are way more beautiful than Rosie Huntington-Whiteley. Someone else might disagree. But there is diminishing returns at a certain point. Someone who is risking their life and health or can no longer properly carry out their day to day life because of their weight is not that attractive.
But it's all subjective. For example I find darker skin tones to be incredibly beautiful, more so than light/white so someone like Vivian Eyo-Ephraim takes my breath away.
Gaining weight isn't the same thing as becoming overweight, fat or obese. All of the provided pictures are one of those three options. For me I think looking healthy is the essence of attractiveness but everyone has a preference and it's cool if some women gain confidence by becoming overweight but that doesn't take away the fact that they're unhealthy. Gaining weight to reach a healthy medium is totally acceptable though.
I’m thick, I weight 140/150 also eight months pregnant, even before I was the same weight. I eat, a lot. But I have a high metabolism so I barely gain weight and if I do, you don’t really notice it. I don’t consider myself fat.
What😂 I’m not obese lmao. I’m perfectly normal weight😂😂 I’m 5’7/5’8 and I’m 140/150 in that range. And I pray that’s not you in your profile picture girly.
Also @Doctor_Strix I wasn’t saying I was fat. I’ve always been a bit thick though even before I was pregnant.
You're making a number about this again, losing your sanity. You did this before too. I'm saying if you're 150kg it's statistically, literally and medically correct to say you're obese. Even if you take away the approximate 12kg a healthy person gains on average during pregnancy the end result is still the same. Stop spamming my inbox too thanks.
If a person is happy with their body image and confident with their weight they wouldn't behave the way you do. I haven't targeted or shamed you once, you however tried shaming me even though I'm giving you an honest opinion to a question that YOU ASKED. In fact it's not even an opinion, it's common knowledge. If your mental image of yourself is that frail that you have to attack anyone that tries to bring you back to reality then I feel sorry for you.
I even asked if you meant kilos... So did @Doctor_Strix
And not getting an answer I presumed you meant kilos considering the response from you. You didn't offend me, I'm 0.5 kilos below the average of my BMI and I'm happy with it.
I will admit I am a few pounds overweight maybe even 10 or 15 but my stomach doesn’t overlap my t shirt or top even before I got pregnant, now, yes lol because I’m pregnant. But I don’t consider myself skinny or fat. I’m on the thick side now I’m just fat from being pregnant. I am sorry for the way I acted, my hormones aren’t the greatest right now and I apologize for taking it out on you. I’m pregnant and I know I’m fat.
Yeah and I have no issues with that. That's not even majorly overweight, hardly at all. Saw your picture in one of your questions and you look like you have no fat like at all. The problem I have with you is that you are quick to pull the trigger on others who have absolutely nothing against you. Or maybe just against me for some reason considering this is the second time you've gone on a spree saying I'm fat shaming you. I don't fat shame, nor care if other people are fat. You are not fat either. You look healthy.
Thank you girl. I am really sorry for the way I’ve acted towards you. I promise I’m one of the nicest girls on this app I think we’ve just gone off on the wrong foot and I apologize 100% for it! /-:
I never was a fan of either tbh. People should be the shape they like and feel comfortable with. As long as it's not on a dangerous level, a little much or a little less is all good. Personally I've come to the conclusion that I probably feel most comfortable with some extra weight. I'm around the second girl's level. I've been over 100 kg, which I've managed to go down from. Some people will still argue I need to lose more, and I see their point but... I've realized my weight won't solve all my self image issues. I'll be insecure in a size 1 and 90+, I'd rather keep the shape I'm okay with and work on bettering my inner opinion on myself. I have days I wish I was skinny, but I try to remember that.. Nothing will change if I do something for someone else. I can lose weight for someone but in the end, once they're gone, will I really still be happy and comfortable? My answer is no
Go you!!! :D also, someone once told me, when you met someone, did you remember their weight or how they treated you/themselves? I thought that was genius
I think it's definitely a grey area and a touchy subject. If we can in general agree that you can be to big then we should also agree you can be to small. If that's the case then giving the "perfect weight" is an opinion and to achieve it you might need to gain weight to meet that goal. Wether or not the new weight is "attractive" is irelevint that's to much of an opinion.
Personally I like a girl that looks healthy. So if she's underweight or skin and bones then I would easily condone gaining weight to look more attractive
Looks like they just wanted to eat more. It Durant look as if they carefully planned any kind of weight gain regiment. I think tyst gained weight and after wards says oh I wanted to look better.
pic 1 Before is photoshopped. It’s not tyst she’s thin it’s That her body is paper... of a person we’re actually that thin they’d be really bony. It’s like she’s trying to get more positive feee back for the after pic.
. Normally I don’t comment bc it’s their business but they put it up there for all and they didn't have to.
honestly I think it is silly... They do not Look healthier, they just look like they gained weight. Weight gain can be healthy but you need to do it in An organized way. They just got chubby. Anyone can do that. 🤷♀️ It isn’t really deserving of a before and after. in my opinion
and to be clear I’m not saying any are ugly. Just tyst they don’t look healthier. And one seems she gained weight bc she got pregnant.
People are saying good for her bc She said she was anorexic 🤷♀️ Doesn’t mean it looks any better on her to be dat and it isn’t healthy to be out of shape just bc you used to feel bad eating.
Rules of beauty apply whether you had anorexia or not. It’s not healthy to be out of shake and getting fat isn’t some kind of victory. People die from that more than from being underweight.
As far as looks, Someone doesn’t look better far just bc she had a mental problem. You either look better or you don’t. If she wanted to gain weight she could’ve done it in a healthy way. She just got fat. I do not see why That is so amazing.
Also the before pocis hurts food. She looks like a snake it’s a bad pic. No one would loOk good in that pic you’re it’s s bad comparison. Bit her busy is fine. Just thin. If only bothers people bc she face some sob story. It’s irrelevant to how a iersin looks. No one knows your story when they see you.
Again I’m not saying people shouldn’t gain weight if they like or that it means you can’t be attractive. I’m saying you’re still out of shape and fat no matter what lofty reasons you attribute to it.
Let’s say you even were unhealthy and that was your motivation, how does it make sense to get unhealthy in the oppsite direction.
Stupid sh*t gets celebrated abc people want to be tiny or huge they can’t just be normal. It’s attention I guess 🤷♀️
I saw a video of a massively obese woman talking about herself when she was depressed and mal nourished as if she’s so much better now and was so poorly off before
.. the picture was of a Very healthy looking slim woman, With not three but Only one chin.
I’m not trying to insult her weight I’m sure she has struggled.. it’s just shard that you say “anorexia” and then anything other than being thin, becomes healthy. She must have been 300 pounds. At least.
The same as the girls trying to lose weight to look better and then begin too far as to look skinny rather than fit, these girls also went to far and look fat rather than good. most people just don’t want to stop eating and rather look like pigs and say they are happy like that but as soon as a girl with fitter body walks into the room, the chubby ones feel inferior and can become defensive and rude in attitude..
sadly they are in the majority and therefore men have to either turn hay or accept the fatness because that’s the reality. Girls don’t really want to be fat they are just lazy and don’t want to stop eating so much.
If you go really skinny you’ll attract one set of guys. If you go really fat you’ll attract a second set of guys. If you go really muscular you're attract a third set of guys. If you’re in the middle you’ll attract a forth set of guys. Not all sets of guys are evenly distributed within the population. Pick what works for you, and deal with the consequences and options that it creates for you. Just don’t complain when people don’t find you attractive and try to insist you are hot expecting people to accept you and not judge you for your choices...
People love to hate on women with a bit more weight. But the truth is, if you keep losing weight, you will end up looking less good in clothes. A bit of flesh or muscle on you is the only thing that gives you shape. Most skinny girls have absolutely no shape under their clothes. Lose weight but don't lose too much.
Having a healthy fat level (15-25% on a woman) is attractive. Being bones and skin is unattractive, just as is being one mass of undulating fat and skin.
I personally think they look unhealthy and, it's not for me at all. I prefer skinny people vs overweight people. I will never find fat attractive. I'm sorry if that upsets anyone but healthy is beautiful. HOWEVER, if they are severely underweight like Eugenia Cooney then hell yes put some weight on because it is uncomfortable to look at people who are too skinny.
You don’t choose where you gain weight though. Not everyone looks like these girls even when they do gain weight. I’ve seen big girls with flat asses or flat chests. They may benefit from being overall healthier at that point.
I am trying to gain weight because I am underweight, not to look more attractive but to be healthier. I would still personally prefer to be on the slim side of a healthy weight.
your body actually will regulate itself just eat when your hungry. unless u are purposely going with out food then u will be fine and enjoy the slim figure :D
The second two pictures I think they look attractive either way.
I am similar to the smaller women but there are still times I feel really fat but there are times I think I need to gain weight. No matter what I do I think I'll always feel insecure 🤣 a little.
all of them except girl #1 are gorgeous! and i would be proud to look like any of them because they are so beautiful! but girl #1 is breaking my heart and someone needs to help her and if anyone knows her number i would call her and try to heal but i know that sounds crazy so ya all of those women are beautiful except girl#1 - she is in horrible agony.
@wisefool bahahahah! keep digging the hole idiot! i am 100lbs soaking wet! and a professionally trained dancer, competitive cheerleader and gymnast! oh and magically served 10yrs in the military so ya don't even try that shit with me! i could slam you into a wall before you even had a chance to blink! and ya - do you carry watermelons under your arms big boy? cuz talking the way you are talking you better look like jean claude van damme or dolph lundgren or shut the hell up!
@wisefool i was using them at their prime to establish a pardigm for you but went right over your head did it? oh that's surprising... clears throat and that's gotta be what? at least a hat trick!
@MarkusCopeland yes and maybe when you live in a world where single mothers are having a hard time raising children and advertisers market things as healthy and she already works 2 jobs and has to raise kids? she's probably gonna fall hook line and sinker for an easy thing to eat because she is dead tired and you want her to go to a gym? and do what? like reps or something? oh right - why don't you go bite on a rock? find a big ugly really hard one! oh and be careful not to slip - i'd hate to see ya bust yer pretty face! oh another watermelon carrier? do you people actually have lives? and souls?
@kymberz Stop the hyperbole, that's still laziness. Quick and easy food doesn't have to be burgers and fries. You'd have more energy and feel better if you ate better.
Eat whatever you want to, just be aware that it's a clear indication of how much you value your own health.
@MarkusCopeland then get one of those baby food bag things and suck on it! and when you have time - steam some fish and vegetables in parchment paper with a tiny few drops of olive oil, a few cloves of garlic whatever fresh spices you are growing salt and pepper and make a meal out of it. i call that thanksgiving! and i live on those baby food bags... much easier to lug around than jars!
Coming from an obese woman, DON’T, it’s stupid. Unless you’re still in a healthy weight range or have a curvy/proportionate figure, don’t. When you’re fat, men don’t look your way and actually avoid you. I can’t blame them, but it’s the reality. I feel bad for my friends that they want to be around me, it’s like walking around with an odd blob specimen. I know I’m disgusting and subhuman because of my weight. When I get the weight off, I still won’t win because of my loose skin, stretch marks and discoloration. It’s not worth gaining weight for any reason, you won’t be beautiful to society at that point. If you’re a healthy weight or have a proportionate figure, love yourself and know how beautiful you are. 🖤
Healthy should always be the goal. You can have a thicker build and be healthy. I will say that I've felt a lot better having lost the weight that I did. And not just physically. But some people are the opposite. They feel better after to putting a few pounds on. Health (mental and physical) should def be the focus tho.
I’m a big fan. I like a bigger woman. Obviously everyone is differrent. All body’s are different. And all body’s are beautiful. But my taste is for the thicker lady for sure. If you want me to pick a favourite from the top it would be the thicker version of the girl in pink 👌🏻
I think that it depends from girl to girl. In my opinion, in this case these two girls look better with weight but it is mostly because majority of their fat went to breasts, butt and hips which guys usually like. However i think that a lot of the girls dont look like this when they gain weight. They may look tottaly different. There are girls that look better when they are fit, they get good physigue and their face become more attractive and there are girls which i think are minority who look good when they are obese.
I think the girls in these pictures look so much better before gaining the weight, with the exception though of the girl in the back and white picture, she looks so much better with more weight on. She looks really pretty. I’m really attracted to thin girls
I'm totally for it :) Especially in places where being skinny is the most preferred there's a lot of girls that would look better with more weight. It doesn't work for every girl though it depends on the body. Girls with broader hips usually look better when they're not super skinny.
I think a fitter look is a healthier look, if u can't run 2km without gassing out u must be unhealthy, and to me unhealthy just isn't attractive, that said everyone is free to do whatever they please
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