any ways to make myself less self conscious? I've been seeing this guy, and he says he loves my body. But I hate my body, and I want to be able to tell myself that I love my body without having a guy say it for me.
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Whatever you don't like, work on it if YOU want to.
But at least realize he finds you hot. Likely other guys do. Be happy to accept the praise and embrace your beauty :D the fact the guy is saying it doesn't make your existence or beauty, but it should at least show you that people do find you attractive. Don't be so negative until you've got real reason to be so, and even then try and think somewhat positively.0