My natural inclination is to dress kind of like a tomboy, but I feel like whenever I get dressed up really girly, suddenly boys notice me. Are they not into the whole skater girl look? Is it intimidating or come off as gay?
Are guys attracted to girls with short hair who enjoy wearing vans and flannel?
What Guys Said 1
I think that a woman that's a tomboy is most likely gay. I like the skater girl look on some girls but I prefer a girlie girl.0
What Girls Said 1
I actually get more compliments when I dress the way you described than when I dress girlie.
Last summer I had long blond hair and dressed in a very bright, preppy, girlie manner. Guys didn't notice me, though, because I looked like almost every other girl you saw.
This winter I cut my hair short, dyed it red, and wore mostly skinny jeans and plaid flannel shirts. I would try to feminize it a little with cute boots and jewelry, and guys were suddenly coming up to me out of nowhere and striking up conversations with me.1
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