Yes, I hate being stared at because of wearing heels also. And I don't like the comments from strangers about me being tall when I'm wearing them.
@Flower7 Oh yes, in high school, one day, I decided to wear some casual heels but it made me look tall, I'm 5'3'' and some people thought I had something fancy that I was going to, ugh.
What type of work do you do that makes heels a required part of the uniform?
That's interesting. I don't think I've heard of any jobs before where heels are mandatory. At least you get to sit down a lot, so you're not uncomfortable standing in your heels.
Are you allowed to wear pants to work, or do you have to wear only skirts or dresses?
If guys wore them too, would you be more likely to?If you weren't of course "forced" to, at work, whatever the fuck that means
No pants, only skirts or dresses.
are you a stripper?
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@FlirtyShadow well said. Its no one's business to tell you what you can wear and what you can't wear. My girlfriend is 6'2 and she rocks the heels.
Haha cheers, life is WAAAY too short to worry about others opinions on yourself, especially with such nonsense things like heels 😂🤷♀️
Agreed 100% 😊
taller girls, are sexier, in my opinion
should never do something for the opposite sexif you don't like them, don't wear them. if he has a problem with that, you're with the wrong guy
*because they can be comfortable in some cases or work better with some outfits.*
A guy shouldn't be trying to control what his girlfriend wears. Breaking up with him was probably a good decision.
I don't have an issue really if it's for a date night and he says something like "This dress would be so hot for tonight" But if the reasoning is to impress other people then thats a hard no.
Falling down the stairs must have been embarrassing! Hopefully you were alone and no one saw it.
Thankfully no one did but my mom heard everything.
Well at least you weren't in public! That experience makes it very understandable for why you decided to stop wearing heels.
If guys wore them too, would you be more likely to?
I should have known that from your username!
When do you consider "absolutely have to"?
@asshole_ Like if we're going to a fancy place where they have a dress code that says things like no trainers or sneakers, I am always wary going with my converse or Docs then as I don't want to be the reason we get turned away! Also for things like my graduation or for a wedding, I would wear heels, mostly to be polite and to live up to the formality of the occasion.
@asshole_ For those things though, I have usually taken a pair of flats in my bag or my car and changed into them at the first opportunity I could though 😂 Many times coming out of a fancy restaurant, dressed up and in the middle of Birmingham, I can be found clinging onto my boyfriend's arm as I change shoes barely out of the doorway of the place. I'm not a fancy person I'm afraid 😂
clumsy sounds, too
@asshole_ 100% yeah, I'm super clumsy, like I have a couple bruises on my arms at the minute where I assume I hit them off something but I have no idea what. As you can imagine, that trait doesn't pair well with heels!
I prefer flats also.
taller girls, are indeed sexier, in my opinion
How so what?The pain? It is because all your weight is getting placed onto your toes instead of your whole foot.
Why it makes me feel confident. I have no idea.But you probably feel the same about something.Maybe you feel more confident in a polo shirt instead of a normal tshirt. I don't know.It is hard to explain.
I think it just makes my legs looks slimmer and longer, it lifts my butt and it makes my posture in general better.
Hey, I could dance on your tummy while wearing my stiletto heels. Does that sound sexy?
It kinda does 😂 An E. R. ride sounds so romantic 😍
The guy who downvoted this is stupid as fuck 😚
Lol so relatable I love my Vans😂Vans >>>>>>>>>>> Heels😂
@SpiderManFan2002 Right? 😁😁😁
@asshole_ And you care whether her or I wear high heels because?😂
@asshole_ lol same
No lol I don't care, some guys do wear them, still doesn't mean I'm gonna lol
Cross dressers sureBut, what if it was meant for both sexes, and weren't just for cross dressers
Haha well the answer would still be no, because that wouldn't change the fact, they cause me pain lol
But they don't cause others pain, including men
And even the girls who have pain from them, will still wear them, and a lot
Well they cause me pain, and I don't really care- if it causes a girl pain and she continues to wear them a lot, that's her choice.My choice is, I don't want to wear them to cause myself pain I see as unnecessary. I don't care how many other girls or guys do it.
that's the point thoughyou just sound like a scaredy cat, who won't change her mind/hard headed... i wouldn't date you to save my life
Lol well if you're so bothered about wearing high heels because they don't cause other men or women pain why don't wear them?And for the record, I wouldn't want to date a 31-year-old man, who tries to persuade people to change their footwear. Like why does it even matter to you whether I or any other woman or man wears high heels?😂😂Seriously bro, get a hobby that's not obsessing over people's footwear😂
No. Heels can cause foot deformity. They're very unhealthy. They cause a lot of issues in the feet, legs and spine.
for you maybe
No its actually pretty common. You can look it up. I'm sure you won't but then again, I don't really care
Nope, it's not common
As I mentioned, idgaf
@asshole_, in a party, a gala, a concert, dinner dates, business meetings, role playing in the bedroom, etc.
So, every day, basically
by the way, i didn't even know galas still happened, isn't that a 20's thing
never too tall to wear them. tall girls look even sexier in them
there are certain things you can do to make them more comfortable, including, ya know, wear themno pain, no gain
haha right. i wear them but only at special nights
what do you consider "special nights"?
weddings, gathering up with friends at night, birthdays etc
going to a fine restaurant
So, all the time, basically
nahh im pretty asocial. My "all the time" is netflix and chill haha
Then why did you mention all those
because i do them too, but rarely, that makes them "special" nights
if you say so
who cares if you're short or not.. i don't
If guys wore them too, would you be more likely to?by the way tall girls look even sexier in them
@asshole_ still no probably. I enjoy my short moments as much as I can.
@asshole_ No, I would not be more likely to wear them. I am just a flats kind of girl
@asshole_ I just do. I'm clumsy and have two left feet. On occasion, I do wear high heels if the need does arise. You can manly find be barefoot or in flipflops.
Is that because they're uncomfortable?
Pretty much yes. Also I just dont see the big deal about them. The last thing I want is to be taller. I like being a little shortie. I think guys find short girls more attractive anyways
I feel like most guys like shorter girls also. How tall are you?
4'10 so mostly every guy is taller then me anyways
Yes, they can be painful!
I'd rather be barefoot lol
when do you wear them?
@asshole_ flats or shoes/boots with a shallower heel, much more comfortable
I agree! If I was shorter, I would probably like heels better.
No, I don't wear them very much because I don't like being taller with them on. I also don't like the noise they make when walking and they're usually uncomfortable also.
Oh ok. I bet you are out balance too wearing them.
I don't think so.
I'll stick to my comfort zone. Ain't gonna change my ways for someone~
i just think you're being a little hard headed
too hard headed
But you are still a sweet <3 , madam Chloe!You are a wonderful woman.