What I also found to be very shallow is that all the guys that get girls all have dark hair and tanned skin, and apparently if I don't look like that I'm not attractive. I have brown hair, green eyes, tall (5'10) with lightish skin, but it doesn't mean I'm ugly. I actually find girls with dark colored hair and eyes to be less attractive, but that's just me.
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Honestly? Sometimes I look at physical appearance first but that's on a very rare occasion because most of the time guys become more attractive after I've gotten a taste of their personality. For example there is this one guy in my school that almost every girl finds attractive in one way or another. But for some reason I just can't bring myself to find him attractive because I've heard things about his personality and the way he is. On the other hand this guy that I'm currently smitten with I didn't find attractive at all in the least at first but over time I developed an attraction to him. All my friends don't understand it because they don't think he's cute in the least bit but as far as I'm concerned at this very moment he's the reason the sun rises in the morning and sets in the evening. Just talk to some girls and let them see the inner you. Yeah this might not work for all girls but I truly believe that the girls worth dating will not be so superficial as to judge you based off of first appearances.