I am really considering just getting the braces and wearing them again for like distant walking, but the thing is I want to get married and have babies... who is going to want to marry me? I mean it sucks but all I have to rely on is the fact that I am attractive (to some) and I am nice... if I don't have pretty then what? What attracts guys to girls? being pretty... guys don't like ugly girls, and I already have enough issues with my handicap why would any guy want to deal with that?
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ok common sense...if your boyfriend is encouraging you to get them and that he'll still like you then I don't understand why you won't do it. and even if he said ew that's gross I won't be with you...you still know what would be best for you and that's to get the braces. Obviously if you don't get them your going to get worse. so your taking the chance of these are your words "actually being a loser" and messing up your legs more or getting better with the braces. Real guys don't care about beauty they care about what's on the inside. No one wants a dumb pretty girl so be smart and get the braces. A guy that loves and cares for you will be there no matter what issues you have. So don't worry about it. do what you need too.
I use to wear a back brace before I got surgery and there were people that picked on me all the time...though I wasn't a loser and I would never say you are just because you have a handicap. People includinmg my boyfriend tell me I'm pretty all the time, I would have been a hunch back with out the brace around my back...you gotta do what you gotta do.