When a girl says, "Awh you're so cute." or "you're so adorable." is it insulting to you, or is it a compliment. Does it feel like we emasculate you guys?
What does "cute" mean to you?
What Guys Said 8
To me, it means, roughly, "Well, I'm never going to f*** you." It feels like she doesn't see me as a man, but rather as a boy. So yes, it is emasculating. But also informative - if she says something like that, I'm pretty sure she's not interested in me.2
This question gets asked fairly frequently and while I personally take it as a compliment, it seems that a number of guys do take offense so use with caution. When in doubt, go with a different compliment.0
I don't mind being called cute... I look young for my age so I take it as a compliment. When I am 40 I'll still look like I'm in my early 30s so I am pretty satisfied with looking young and "cute".0
Insulting? No. It makes me wish I had the ability to grow facial hair and look older. I guess it's better than being called ugly.0
It's a compliment showing that the girl is having a good time with me... I think0
It's an outright verbal lashing.0
What Girls Said 2
I told that once, because he was so so cute :)
after that, he refrained from me, probably I had hurt his confidence. Of course if you say it 30 year old lawyer, that wouldn't be nice to him isn't it? haha.
But, all I meant was he was cute like a teddy bear that I used to hug when I was a child, he gave me that warm feeling.0
i told a guy he was cute after he called me hot. I think he took it as me not liking him as more than a friend, when I really meant that he was good looking, and I wouldn't mind hugging him.0
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