Is A Girls Beauty More Important Than Her Brains To Most Guys?

[H8INCHES]

Men are very visual. We definitely notice looks first, unless there is some situation where we only exposed to her in writings or something like that without seeing her. In that case it would likely take a much longer time to develop an admiration.
Chat or messaging would give an idea of her personality quicker but there is an element missing and misunderstandings are easy.
We might meet her in an audio/video format, like phone or video call in which case we would get to know her much quicker and more thoroughly because we can interact in real time. And the private nature of these formats can allow a quick study of one another if both parties are honest and reveling.
Obviously, face to face is the best way to become acquainted and the only way to be completely intimate.
Most guys are not interested in just a pretty face and/or a nice body. Secret gets more attention than some others because us guys can't ignore a hot body and beautiful eyes. But because of the way you present your questions, they are usually easy to answer. I never throw my hands up and think 'what the hell is she asking'. Your questions are clear and you even define terms.
For me personally, you are a very interesting person. And part of that is your sexuality, I respect how free you are. Plus I know how difficult your life is after service. I am determined to be your brother any way I can be. If I truly help you, even once, I am pleased.

[Barry88]

Intelligence. I need to be able to have a meaningful conversation with a girl. There once was a girl who was attracted to me, but she wasn't very intelligent. I wasn't attracted to her, even though I gave her a chance. It's just not my thing. But I have been attracted to girls of which I first thought, based on the looks: "Not my type". Of course not that they were ugly, but just that they weren't the type of girl I would be attracted to based on looks. But when I got to know them, they were very intelligent and amazing girls, and I started to appreciate not only their intelligence but their looks as well. Even though I first thought that they weren't my type, they became extremely attractive to me.

So, to me intelligence is definitely the most important.

[Siren777]

Males are attracted to beauty at first glance but to keep his attention with beauty alone is further from the truth.
As it starts with physicality firstly, and visual aspect of a woman before finding her intelligence. However, they may prefer brains over beauty. That will indeed be their preferred choice. As intelligence, a good sense of humor & great personality can be highly attractive.

[Anonymous]

i asked a very similar question but wish i saw this post first...

[Jjpayne]

Let me put it this way. I believe women's bodies are what men attracted to then comes the talking to the woman to get to know her. But it's totally a woman's shape But in a coffee shop for example, attraction first Then, it's like, oh so we like the same poetry and movies 🤗

[MrOracle]

She has to be good-looking enough for me to find attractive, but that bar isn't particularly high - probably a 4/10 or better. And that's kind of the same thing with intelligence - a 90 IQ, which is a little below average, is fine with me. In either case, a higher score is a bonus, and one I certainly appreciate and value, but not something that's a requirement.

The thing that's harder for me to find is someone with matching morals and values. I'm looking for more like 8/10 in that area, and it seems to be much tougher to find, but also something I'm far less likely to "settle" about.

[harvest]

Depends what you're looking for. If I want to simply pound her until she can't walk straight to the bathroom, then I don't really care if she can count to 10 xD
But if I'm looking for a girlfriend, then her brain may be even more important than the shape of her ass or the way she purrs in bed (also super important thing by the way ;) )

[Wiredone]

A woman's personality is more important than her looks. She has to be outgoing, honest, and caring. There also has to be some intellectual chemistry between us. Then she has to have beautiful eyes and a nice smile. After all that then I'll go by her looks.
I pay attention to your posts because I like your personality. Your pictures are just a bonus. If you didn't post pictures I would still check out your questions. If it's not something I want to discuss, I won't post an opinion.

[Twalli]

I notice body first. Not knowing a person, all I have to go on is body. After I know a girl for a while I can find out if I like her brain too.


In your case, while you are reasonably physically attractive to me, I enjoy your questions and our brief conversations far more than your looks.

[PunyshmeSafelyplease]

No!
I think most men look for a "Hot" girl
but if she doesn't have the charm to mix with it
then they quickly lose interest..

Gotta be the entire package!
beauty and brains!

[Nalix]

A woman can be nice to look at, but that doesn't on its own make me interested in her. It may make me interested enough to pay attention to what she says. It usually takes about 10 minutes of me listening to her talk for me to decide if there is anything there that makes me want to approach her to learn more.

[Meldrum]

I am attracted to a woman because of her beauty but if she can't put together two coherent sentences, she's not for me. A woman that might not fit within my narrow perspective of attractiveness, may very well have a more developed brain. I am more prone to engage in conversation with her.

[Z1pTD]

I care about both, but I enjoy talking to someone who is intelligent more than to somebody who is pretty. Talking to somebody who is pretty but illogical can be very hard. For instance, someone I know said “the border wall isn’t good for anyone, so we shouldn’t build one.” When I asked if she would want a wall if her father was a border guard she said “yeah, but he’s not.” She didn’t see the contradiction. Yes, it’s not necessarily a contradiction, but effectively it is.

[rc321]

Brains, but not just in terms of intelligence but being matched whether you can have a conversation or have things in common like music or arts. Beauty comes and goes... but if her brain is sexy... that's forever

[Massageman]

Well, heck: when you bare your booty as much as you do, why waste the imagery.

Love the color-coordinated library, too.

[Blaine999]

Unfortunately a lot of men today hold physical looks in the highest regard, but that's so limited and short sighted. A man can only truly enjoy a woman's company or vice versa, if he pays attention to the other two elements; her heart and her mind. I find that these two are sadly underrated and far more attractive than physical looks alone.

[jmf909]

Obviously looks are first attractions usually that is Why you want to know her name then talking with them and establishing intelligence level. and intelligent women are intimidating because they take more than most to impress

[Likes2drive]

Well we really can’t tell how smart a woman is by looking at her so the first thing we go by is how attractive she is to us so that’s basically what I go by first and obviously I’m going to lose interest if she’s a real bimbo

[Liamj132111]

Maybe at first I’m not sure to be honest with you I think it’s the first thing you notice usually so that plays a big part

[scuff1986]

Her brains, I like someone who can adapt and hold long conversations sharing knowledge and reason as it holds more to me cos looks can fade over time

[AlwaysBelieving]

"A girl's exterior beauty (don't even get me started on the whole "beauty" discussion) will get me interested, it's her brains that keep me interested."

[Josh4206]

A lot probably, but I prefer someone smart and average more than beautiful and dumb

[Feelicks]

Intelligent is great, but attitude is what makes or breaks it.

[krin_m]

Nope! Intelligent girls know how to take care of themselves and present themselves properly (So do intelligent men I would think).

[najekim]

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. But brains can impress everyone.

[Waldoe]

Yes, I do like her butt, umm what was the question again?

[Maspolomas]

I prefer a smart woman so we can have a decent conversation

[MackWestwood]

Looks get you in the door, personality, intelligence, and character get you a seat at the table.

[IWannaSmashU]

My girlfriend has dyslexia, but she's beautiful. Idc if she's not the smartest. just not outright dumb

[sumanthr]

Nope... both in equal ratio is imp.. but it is difficult to find such girls..😎.. so by default beauty we choose , any how boys have brains already..

[rebeliouse]

@Secret6620
looks attract brains and attitude make a girl a keeper plus she has to be saint out side and filthy dirty in bed :D

[AshleySeeks]

I think intelligence is more sexier. Especially if she's a book worm

[Tim-loves-it]

Not to me.. Beauty is only skin deep; so therefore, an icing on the cake

[Pulseofsulfur]

I mean I'd rather have someone who's smart and average than a beauty and dumb

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

A girl's brains mean more to me

[dudeinohio]

I'll go personality over looks

[bones0271]

They are both equally important

[TheAfrikan]

Am in for the brains.

[alance99]

Average intelligence is a must for me

[andy530]

Brains over beauty every time

[NightOwl8801]

Looks can only go so far...

[CubaPirate]

Why can't I have one with both

[aieeazumui]

Definitely beauty attracts more easily

[oldtvshowlover188]

Brains & Beauty is what most guys want

[soe11]

Both important to me

[hima99]

Both are important