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There is a proverb: "what is for one the owl, is for another the nightingale." I have no idea, if this is also an english proverb. Maybe. If not, I think you understand the sense of it.
In any case, there is no special recipe for a attractivity possible, because the taste of the both genders is very different.
But one thing is clear. If you have a good mood, this is an attraction for a lot of other persons.
To be natural is surely an attraction for a lot of guys too.
And there is also a kind of law, that it gives barriers between the single classes. But not enough with this, it gives also different peer groups and "circles" of the society.
So you have to ask yourself, "who I am?" If you know this, then you will know, to whom you can belongs.
It makes no sense to be the sunny girl for all. Not all humen beeing are fitting for all.
It is full enough a fitting for a part of the society.