I am happy with myself and I am a good person who thinks of himself somewhat handsome But women see to avoid me I the though that I maybe insecure but I'm not. I hope I'm wrong but I think both men and women aim for the top of the iceberg and leave everyone else at the bottom of the barrel. And if this is the case than it is kind of disheartening to hear and I can see were it would lead some people to have confidence issues. I would like to hear from all of you guys but ladies I think you could help me on this one some more. Guys if you can help on this one I'm all ears too.
Do attractive men come off as more secure?
What Girls Said 3
Most of the time yes, unless they have low self-esteem.0
Secure men come off as more attractive. :)0
No, I know attractive (physically) men who are not secure and act weird because of it. Insecurity causes lots of strange behaviors.0
What Guys Said 1
Well yes, most people aim for something that is good rather than something that is bad, I mean, that is common sense, that doesn't mean you don't have your place in the world and the great news is that the overwhelming majority of guys and girls who might have natural attributes that would put them above all the rest tend to f*** sh*t up for themselves with their personality, so even if you are not born with the best looks you can get a leg up on most other guys with a little bit of effort, you really have no excuse these days with all the info and have no one to blame but yourself0
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