I am anything but physically attractive. Although there is a saying that 3's should go with 3's and 10's should go with 10's, I feel it in my blood to try and defy the norm..what are my chances? Would it help to do plastic surgery? Would it help to be super rich and drive nice cars?
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If you want a meaningful relationship, then you'd have to like the woman's personality anyways, it won't last long unless you can find a connection. Amd by the time you get to know a woman properly, you'll start overlooking certain aspect of her appearance. You'll realize that looks are only part of the picture when it comes to relationships.
If you just want hook ups, then you'll have to try harder. Start working out, etc. yo improve your appearance. When women look for one night stands, there are only a few things important to them, including looks and bedroom performance. When a woman meets you in a situation when she's looking for a hook up e.g.,in a bar, and finds you appealing enough to keep a conversation going with you, she'll start wondering about how well you'll be able to perfrom. That'll be the main thing on her mind. Usually, she'll decide within a few minutes if she wants you to come home with her. You have to appear confident to reassure her of your abilities, be well groomed, clean, and generally well dressed. Don't go out looking scruffy expecting to score. Be generous, offer to buy her drinks, don't be rude. Don't try to make stupid jokes, don't say things with sexual double-meanings, i.e. don't act sexually agressive, it's off putting. You don't need to remind or be too straight forward of your intentions with women, they know exactly whay you want and what they want.
Another way to get with a certain type of women, is to be very wealthy. But then you can only expect women to be with you, because of your money, which doesn't make you special to them any way; a golddigger will jump for any opportunity to be with a man who is richer than you.