I started putting on weight in middle school and have just graduated from high school. Over my 4 years in hs I have lost 35lbs. I now weigh 135 but I still see the fat girl. I also don't see myself
as pretty. People tell me I'm beautiful, but I just don't see what they see. Does anyone have any advice for me?
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i wasn't a goodlookign child when I was young...i was tanned & scrawny & I looked like a malnourished village girl. my mother's friends used to make fun of me and said that I'd grow up with no guys liking me LOL. so when people compliment me now I realize I do not really believe them because I don't see what they see. the only thing that helped me to get over it was forcing myself to take it easy and accept compliments with a big smile and a thank you, and then when I'm looking in a mirror, all I try to do is just to make sure I look my best, for myself. I don't bother if I see what people see anymore.1