This sounds silly but when I am alone I think and feel like I am quite pretty/attractive however when I am near attractive people I feel like this huge monster with a massive head and body. Its worse when I like a guy a lot and am around him I just feel as though he is looking at me and thinking 'god what an ugly fat person' even if he is being nice to me. I used to get bullied at school and get called fat by boys so you do think it might stem from this? It surprises me when men/boys are friendly to me as well as I feel like unworthy of it because they are attractive, or that they are wasting their time as they could find someone a whole lot prettier/skinnier/friendlier than me. Also when I know a guy likes me it makes so uncomfortable and I don't know why and I feel there must be something wrong with him for liking me. especially if they are attractive. What do you think is wrong with me? Do you ever feel like that or do I need help of some sort?
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yes yes yes I am like this, just like this. its beacause of your past. I was constantly called ugly and I was fat and my classmates always made fun of me, 24/7. when I look at myself in the mirror at home I always look good, but when I see my reflection in a shop window or something, all I see is bad looking dude. what you need to do is somehow believe that you are good looking and boost your confidence. you need to stop caring how people see u, cause obviously the perception you have abt you is messed up.0