Guys can a short girl who wears glasses, has thick thighs and a fat butt get a quality man?

[Anonymous]

[MrOracle]

You are physically attractive enough to attract a man (you needn't worry about that), but while physical attraction is enough by itself to make a man want to sleep with you, it's not enough to make a man want to have a relationship with you.

In order for a man to want to be in a relationship with you, you need to bring value to him, just as you require him to bring value to you. You wouldn't date a guy who didn't have things that you value: masculinity, career, confidence, the ability to protect you, etc. - you wouldn't even look that guy's way. Well, men want and value certain things to - but they are VERY DIFFERENT THINGS than what women want and value.

Yes, looks matter to some extent, but probably not as much as you imagine (for a relationship), other than most guys do not want a woman who is fat - we're not talking about an extra 10 pounds here, but an extra 50+ pounds. But the other things that men value are YOUTH (because that's closely tied to fertility), LOYALTY, low body count, femininity, and cooperation.

Notice that I did NOT list college education, degrees, careers, or income anywhere on this list, even though most women list some or all of these things on their lists for men. Why is this? It's because women having these things does not help men (because even when women make more money, they don't spend it on men), and because these things almost always go directly against the things men DO care about, particularly youth and fertility - for example, focusing on college and career instead of a relationship during the years where a relationship is the most valuable.

Why do men get into relationships? Well, we know that lots of men don't get into them today, but of those who do, why do they? It's usually because they want a family, i. e., children. Men who don't want a family don't really need to be in a relationship, and take all of the risks and live with all of the expectations and restrictions that come with a relationship. The men who choose to take those things on are making that sacrifice (in most cases) BECAUSE they want children, and they're willing to give up some of their freedom to do so.

This is why men look for women who are "relationship material" - and today, most women don't qualify - hell, most women, especially in their late teens and 20s, have little interest in being "relationship material." But when they get into their early 30s, suddenly they want a relationship - but they've slept with 50 guys and sucked 100 dicks and they have zero ability to pair-bond anymore, and they wonder why the men they want don't want them - why they're only interested in younger girls who "are young and stupid and don't know anything."

Are there men who don't care about those things? Sure - but such men usually have low moral standards themselves (i. e., they'll lie, cheat, and steal), or they are men who are so desperate they'll accept any behavior from a woman in order to have her (which means she won't respect him). Such men live chaotic, messy lives.

When you are weighing what you want out of life, you need to remember that when you involve someone else into those plans, you must also consider what THEY want and what THEY value, because if you don't, chances are good that you won't end up with what you want either.

[Joker_]

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[Horror_lover92]

I have the best boyfriend ever that spoils me 24/7 without me having to ask, and even though I keep saying no and to stop buying me stuff, he still does it. I'm overweight for my height being like 4'11 or 5ft and I wear guys shirts and sweatpants. I also don't wear makeup. I still met a lot great guys in the past. So it really doesn't really matter how you look, you can still find a great person.

[Daniela1982]

What? did CChung go anonymous instead of showing these kind of pics under her G@G profile name?

[Canaaadaaa]

I agree with you cause drama is gay

[ChrisMaster69]

It really depends on how you define quality.

is it looks, cash flow, how nice they are, fun to be with, emotionally connected. Loads of different things make up a person.

not sure what makes a person quality.

i can think of two really amazing girls who I would say are quality (they may dispute this), however I think they are an inspiration.

[MCheetah]

Yes, but not with green feminist hair and slutty attention whoring like that. Assuming you're actually female and not another male catfish on here.

[ohshee]

I don't think of you have any problem getting a man and I think you probably know that somebody who looks like you somebody who doesn't mind being sexy and showing it you shouldn't have any problems whatsoever so if I can are you telling us that you can't get men. Hell you got me right now just from that picture

[ArchivalMars2]

Physically yes, but your appearance is only a part of what you have to worry about. It's going to take a lot more than good looks to retain a quality man.

[NathanDavis]

what's your idea of a "quality man" ?

[slatyb]

Is that her? Cute AF. She definitely could.

[jshm2]

Not if she's too short.

You look like you'd fit in a kidnappers pocket, though.

[Kaneki05]

Of course

[micheal727jovanie]

Depends on her personality, if she doesn't talk much and carries dull conversations she's always going to be a 1 night stand or a side piece.

[crossdressingrihno]

If we're going by that picture then definitely

[TheMajesticKing777]

I believe so, I don't see a reason why she wouldn't but for that I'm sure that personality traits are very important as well so...

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, she can why not?

[FunkyMonkee]

If you're asking about that kind of girl, why are you showing that nice piece of ass in the picture?

[Kabluie]

Looks fine to me

[Danny_dan92]

Maybe

[Massageman]

(your?) body appears to be nicely hourglass shaped, and the fishnets add a touch of fun.
I do think you might want to consider going a bit more conservative with the hair color, and get glasses that are a touch smaller and set-up higher on your face. Really minor stuff.
Save the fun hair colors for cos-play or furrie nights! ;- )

[Andres77]

It depends on wether or not your a psycho.
You certainly grab ones attention.

[Andres77]

www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...riend-death-shower.html

[Andres77]

Ring any bells?

[Freyke]

If her inner beauty matches the outer, it's a done deal.

[one1wild00]

Sure, it is possible.

[Iron_Man]

She can