Looks don't matter at all, do you agree?

Looks are nothing. Personality makes up for a repulsive or bland appearance. Do you agree?

Is personality what turns people on in the bedroom?

What are your thoughts?

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  • No.

    Looks matter.

    Looks don't matter only when I reach the level of when I love a guy and find him physically attractive & sexually appealing only because I love him not because he is.

    Why do guys think girls being less visual = blind.

    Girls are less visual they are not blind.

    Looks matter just not to the same extent as guys.

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What Girls Said 28

  • Of course looks matter. Without attraction a relationship would suck. Different people find different things attractive though, so don't be all whiny about being "ugly".

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  • Personality is definitely much MORE important, but some kind of physical attraction has to be there as well. For me, it's probably a 75/25 split - 75% of what I like in a guy relates to his personality and 25% can be his looks (overall face and body).

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  • Looks matter somewhat. I can't be repulsed by the guy, I have to like something about him so he should at least be cute to me. People who say looks don't matter at all are lying or desperate to the point they'll take anything that will have them

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  • In my world looks are just a bonus. If you have a good personality and I like you all the flaws start to be cute. They start to matter less and less the more you learn to love that person.

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  • looks do matter when you've just met someone. Looks attract people to you , but ones personality keeps those people around.

    I think looks have the larger impact on whether the "bedroom session" will take place or not.

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  • Looks do matter. Someone who you don't find attractive but who you love hanging out with is called a friend! There has to be a level of attraction and chemistry to move to the next level.

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  • you have to have that initial spark and for some girls personality don't ignite the fire but that's not saying all girls have standards

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  • no of course they matter! especially when it's meeting the person for the 1st time or so.. with the intention of dating.. but if its a spontaneous friendship doesn't matter to me

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  • absolutely. personality is most important. if you fall in love with someone for who they are rather than how they look, then the physical attraction will eventually come along. (:

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  • Personality. I mean, looks are nice, but I don't care.

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  • I disagree, if you look like you got hit by a truck I'll be your friend but I'm not gonna date you.

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  • Completely agree. But I don't know about what turns people on in the bedroom...that's probably just all physical.

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  • Looks aren't the only thing, but they do matter a good bit to me

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  • ok seriously, they both matter equally. people that think one matters over the other are lying.

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  • definitely. I used to value looks only when I was a kid, with no experience with boys. I was SO picky. now I realize that its like a very minor thing. I met dozens of super handsome and boring, empty guys.

    of course I still care a bit about it, but if he has a normal face, not a freaky body, close to normal weight, and we click mentally, then id fall head over heels in love.

    the guy I had longest relationship, and recent guys I dated casually, they all look totally different than my 'type'. I wouldn't be interested if I looked at their photos without knowing them.

    when you get along well it changes so much.

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  • i think looks are important just as well as personality

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  • I do not agree.

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  • looks do matter to most people.

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  • Personality has to fill the full 360'

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  • no. looks do matter, but personality matters too.

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  • As girls say on Facebook, "beauty captures attention, personality captures the heart." which I guess in girl-talk means you gotta have looks first. I'd never date an ugly chick unless I was getting paid on TV. I would date an OK looking chick if she was super cool. I would date and then break up with, after I've gotten my share, a super hot bitchy chick. Most girls do not agree with my procedure. I do not agree with girls.

    A girl is reading this right now, and thinking that I am an a**hole. But really, she cannot resist my confidence and is changing her mind slowly. Even if I wore cutoff t-shirts, flat brimmed hats and white oakleys, that would only confirm that I am douchebag, and she would fall in love. I would treat her like crap and have her drive and pay for everything while she convinces herself that I am a great guy. Her friends see me as a tall lanky white kid with bad acne, but I am an a**hole to them too, so they like me. Then I will cheat on her and never call her again, scarring her heart.

    Well, I'm none of anything that I described, and that's why women steer clear.

    So yes, personality is most important.

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  • Looks attract people but most won't last as a relationship.Most people are happy when they meet some one with a personality they are happy to be with rather than the people who they thought were hot .

    Beautiful , hot ,cute what ever she looks like I would rather be attracted to their personality . Yet I know if she has to be some what good looking.

    * Keep in mind that good looking can change from person to person*

    *beautiful people get noticed just as nice people do *

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  • personality means sh*t in the bedroom, looks matter in and out of the bedroom.

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    • This is mainly a girls question because they are apparently “less visual“ than men.

  • Looks matter...whoever say doesn't, is lying.

    The degree it matters varies from person to person, but looks DO matter.

    You don't have to be a top-tier looking person...just have some style and look your best.

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  • Of course looks matter. At the back of your mind you are trying to find a woman to birth your children, and you don't want your kids to look like gargoyles or something.

    Looks aren't everything, but they are damned important.

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  • I don't see how personality can have an effect in the bedroom, unless the couple has a conversation during sex. lol

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  • Both matter equally

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  • looks real do not matter if you like some one y would you care if he or she is real not hot or he not the best looking guy win you like him or he you like them for them and not what they look like on the out side because it what on the in side that real counts

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  • Not true. I require that any partner of mine in the bedroom must have a vagina.

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