I'm a light-skinned (mixed) black women who prefers white men. I seem to have no problem attracting black men, I assume it's because I fit into the stereotype of a what most girls look like in music videos (light skin, thin waist with a bigger butt, and I straighten my hair, and it's medium length). I've read on a lot of blogs that if a white man is with a black women, she is usually more ethnic looking, with darker skin and natural, curly hair. I'm just wondering if there is ANY hope for me in being approached by a white guy? White guys have told me I'm pretty from time to time, but I don't get approached by them all that often... I'd be more interested in the intellectual, funny, almost nerdy kind of white guy.
Are white men attracted to black women?
What Guys Said 1
Yes I'm white and I've definitely been attracted to black women. Sometimes I get the feeling many aren't into white guys though. They seem apprehensive about it.0
What Girls Said 1
Hmm, I've thought the opposite;
I figured if white guys would date a black women, they were more likely to pair up with a mixed black girl?
I've been hit on, like maybe once by a white guy, but he was like the really blackafied thuggish white guy lol (not my type of guy,)
I'm more attracted to the casual white guys, and it's kind of a hard taste, because it's hard to tell if the white guys are really into black girls. And then I hear, the white guys who do like black girls, aren't sure if the black girls like white guys lol
So we're kinda in this awkward state :P
But, I think it helps a lot if you hang out with your white buds, as they'll have other friends who may have some jungle fever as well :D0
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