I'm 17, too young to be stressing about boys but that's never stopped me before. I'm extremely self conscious and when I look in the mirror I'm not happy. I'm invisible when it comes to boys and I'm not exaggerating in the least bit. I don't get approached and guys don't talk to me. All of my guy friends have been gay, the other ones just wanted to copy off my work. I'll occasionally get that whole double take thing where they glance in my direction turn away and look back really fast like they didn't see me the first time but after they do it they just keep walking as if they didn't see anything significant. I've been told that I'm pretty but they've all been from older people so am I just unattractive? If I were attractive, I'd know right? and I'd have more experience with gys?
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Nobody really knows how attractive they are so don't stress. You can only guess by how people treat you, but every person will look at you in a different way anyway. I don't get interest from girls either and one big thing that holds me back is that I'm shy. You sound like you're shy as well so its very possible guys don't think you are available. No matter what never think you aren't good looking enough because there is always someone out there that is meant to be with you. Not all of us can be models so we all excel at different aspects of life. Everybody is beautiful in their own way.1