So how do you women want your black guys, style wise. Because from what I've heard, most women want their dark meat as a thug type or G'd out. But I never grew up in the ghetto per say and so I was never really a thug or a G. My father is a minister and both my parents teach, and I grew up pretty fortunate, not rich by any means, but not poor or in too rough a neighbourhood either. I ask this because most thugs are thugs for a reason. From the way they came up in life and being a thug or a G isn't really a style at all, it's just the only way they know how to live or it's the way it is where they are from.
That's why I kind of think it's funny how some people perceive non-thug blacks, like it's a bad thing or something.
I wonder what you girls or guys think on my observation, not really a question I guess. Oh, and don't hold back no matter how strongly your comment is going to be. I'm a big boy and heard a lot of sh*t thrown at me growing up, so don't be afraid to voice your opinions : ).
Actually I don't know how the question could be viewed as being a lash out to racism. I'm sorry if people view it as that. Not my intention and I apologies. It's just a view on pref. thugs or non-thug
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Just a little about myself: I grew up in the ghetto/poor, but did some time in the suburbs, went to predominately white high schools for 3 years, and enjoyed every minute of it. I'm the black sheep of the black community. I don't have the thug/hood look, talk, swag, game, and I'm less masculine physically compared to black men. Yeah, I can give dap, know some ebonics, local slang, and have more game and flavor that "Brad" and "Chad" but that's about it. Women literally turned there noses up at me and ran away from me as if I'm a diseased animal. In short, I had and still have a hard time fitting in with my own people.
"most women want their dark meat as a thug type or G'd out."
- This and the athlete (Basketball and football player) is the only black man that's promoted in the media and in the black communities. The thug/hood guys are the ONLY men the majority of black women (32 and under) value. Over 32 years old, the matriarchal submissive simp is desirable, but that's another topic. I even seen some black girls hook up with the hood white guys over the brothas with a brain. Some would say it's there overwhelming swag, style, game, & confidence and others would say they are simply used to those kind of guys to the point they have no idea how to approach, behave, or even talk to the guys with there noses in the books and/or is trying to learn and become something. One of the reasons why these swagless non thug guys are picked up by other races (namely white women) or they jumped shipped because over there, substance (having a brain and something going for yourself) is more valued that acting hard or cool via swag.
Most of these thugs are fake. Every random group of six you gather, I guarantee at least one of them has his noses in the books and another that's staying back in school for help. The guys and girls he hangs around has no idea what they are trying to do because studying and having book knowledge is not valued by a lot of younger (under 32) BW and BM. Unfortunately, the other four are just too far gone and won't wake up until there about 40 years old or never.