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They see past looks AFTER they get the looks. Like, the looks matter most, and then between girls who have equal looks, personality matters. I'm sorry to say this, because I think you're young ... but it's how nature works. You don't have to be the prettiest girl to be neat and well put together, though. Look for some hairstyles that suit you, wear clothes that fit well (don't have to be expensive), don't let yourself get sloppy (pajamas, wrinkled clothes, etc). Smile and be nice. that will go a long way.