Most Helpful Girl
All men are basically the same. They see a pretty girl showing a lot of skin and go "ya!" Then they see other guys looking at her and go "what's wrong with you woman? put something on!" My guess is that he really liked the way you were dressing... and thought other men might like the way you were dressing too.
My ex used to do this to me as well. I couldn't get out the door without him pointing out at least three things that he didn't like about the way I dressed. I was really hurt, and for a while I actually thought that he was right. But then I started to realize that women complimented me on my outfits pretty regularly. And men always liked me. And I knew that if I was dressing provocatively, my mother would lecture me about it for a year. So I eventually figured out that it was him.
If it didn't bother you to dress the way he is suggesting, I would say "let it go" (there are better reasons to fight). But since it is interfering with your self esteem, I think you should have a talk with him. Let him know that you have a right to dress any way that you would like, and that if he doesn't like it, he knows where the door is. He has a right to ask you to change... and you have a right to say no.0