Which one would you prefer? How come most people say personality, but they go for looks?
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Well, you know what they say; you can't do personality...3
It's in our nature to go for looks. but in the end it's the personality that counts. I guess it's a little bit of both :)
Looks is based on what you think looks good. Not everyone is attracted to the same thing. Personality is always a bonus :)
I'll give the most honest answer on this page.
People say that personality is more important because:
1- They're ugly
2- They think it's what's politically correct and what people want to hear. So they say it to make people think they're great and to feel goo about themselves.
3- They're weak minded and liars who just go along with whatever.
The truth is, looks matter the most. You can get away with a lot more if you look good, and lets face it. If personality was really that important, why don't fat or ugly people want to date other fat ugly people? Instead they bitch and whine about attractive people not wanting them.
Personality wins in the long run but looks are there all the time. A person can have a great personality but say they gain weight, your attraction to them might go down but as long as they have a great personality, that matters more.
Looks get you noticed, personality makes you stick around.
personality, hands down.
You have to have a really good personality, but looks to count
you need to be hot enough to attract me, but to kep me, you need personality
Well, humans are visual creatures. Looks catch our attention, but personality is what GENUINELY makes us like the person. In other words, I pick personality over looks. Looks fade, but personality makes us who we are and it's always there to stay. In my opinion, there's absolutely nothing worst then a guy or a girl who have the looks, but a shallow, arrogant, and a conceited (I'm better than you) personality.
I'll probably notice somebody for their looks but they are just another person to me until I know what kind of person they are. Personality by far.
looks are all that you see about a person when you first meet them. its not like you can tell what personality a person has from looking at them.
so for me, at first looks, then personality. if I get to know a person with good looks, but a sh*tty personality- they're not worth dating. but then again- I wouldn't date anyone particularly ugly.
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