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It's about looks and personality. Girls for the most part will look at looks (at a smaller level than guys) personality, and financial status. Guys don't care about financial status in their partner as much as women do. And that can actually trump the guys card of him having it harder or not. Both genders have their difficulties. I think it's easier for a woman to score a guy than it is a guy to score a woman. But I think it's easier for men to be more attractive in the sense of what women look for than a woman be attractive in what men look for. If any of this makes sense at all.