Most Helpful Girl
You need to not be so self centered, not just you, many men.
While some girls do things with men in mind, most of us dont.
I wear makeup because I WANT to. I wear it because it looks good on me, and I like how I look much better. I like how my eyes stand out, my skin tone, etc. If its too much for you, you aren't the man for me, period.
I keep my hair short because I LIKE it. I've had long long long hair, and it took over half an hour to style it, and more if I wanted to curl it. It got shut in the door, in my laptop, I rolled over on it, etc. I like how short hair looks, I like my hair color, my hair is my expression. If a man wants me to grow my hair for him, he can kiss my ass. I wear it how I want it.
Overall, I don't give a flying f*** if men hate how I do certain things, pose certain ways, wear certain clothes, hair styles and makeup. It isn't for them, its for me and me alone.