before finally being over him what do you do? have you ever broken him down to the things you liked about him then tried looking for that somewhere else? I feel like my ex did this to me. she used to be against smoking but after we broke up she started smoking, she also started liking similar stuff I liked (again after the break up). something similar like this has happened to me before and I've seen it in other cases, like some girl liking some style of music she would otherwise not like because it reminds her of the guy.
have you done anything like this? or seen your friends do this?
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I find every message, note, voice mail, text message or photo we have and DESTROY THEM. Then, I get on with my life. Talk to other people, mingle a lot more and plan things with friends. You would be surprised how easy it is to forget him/her when you have other eye candy paying attention to you. Essentially, I just focus on the things that mattered in life before, during and after they became a centerfold and enhance those experiences until someone else comes along. It's all a game of trial and error until you find someone who is willing to take you for who you are and who makes you want to become better.0