She is shy too and that makes it extra hard. She gives me smiles and looks and seems to be into me, but that's her job right?
Is there say I can check to see if she likes me without going all oit and asking her?
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I don't think waitresses HAVE to flirt. I've been around enough that are completely indifferent and all that. Sounds romantic what you have going on.
What I would do is write her a note, and find a way to get it to her. Slip it in the bill when some comes and gets it, or leave it with her tip.
I know you think that's bullsh*t or lame... but it totally depends how you word it. That's all there is to it.
"I don't mean to embarrass you, but I think you're lovely. Sometimes my thoughts linger on your smile, and it makes me smile. May I buy you coffee sometime? My name is _____. If I'm wrong just blush. :) I had to say hello". And if you can pull it off add a funny teaser at the end.
I mean... think of the alternatives. Will you ask her out and maybe embarrass her in front of all her co-workers? Follow her to her car like a creep? Post in 'missed connections'. ...
Good luck dude.