What do you girls and guys think about the way a girl dresses, is it a bad first impression to have too much leg showing with the shortie shorts in the Summer? A turn on (for guys) or a turn off to wear heels because it looks like we ladies are trying too hard?
I feel my girlfriends and I can wear what we want when we go places, as long as the situation calls for the outfit. Ex: I wouldn't let anyone come with me to a funeral wearing hot pants. However, dinner and drinks is a different scenario!
Guys, when you meet your date and she's dressed in a low cut shirt with cleavage and a PUSH-EM-UP bra complimented by some tight shorties, are you thinking '..desperate.' or 'Wow!' thoughts? Let's say you see a pretty girl you have never met hanging out at your nearest Chilli's and she's flaunting the low-cut, brand name super short-shorts? What goes on in your head, she isn't wearing ho-garb, but does it affect your impression of her any way?
Ladies, how do you feel about what you wear and why? Is it for attention, or to cover up something you aren't happy with? When you see the long-legged mini-dress chick with the hot pink panties peeking out do you immediately think 'SLUT!'
I don't mean some lone cougar dancing by herself to Pastor Troy and wearing a mini-dress. Just an average girl!
Does it effect your perspective on her intelligence or self image? Boys, would it effect your decision on starting a relationship (..or ending it!) How does the impression stay with you, and are you more likely to try and hook-up and leave? I may use the responses in an article I am writing over the next month, please feel free to respond and comment on everything.
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You asked several different questions so here goes. If a woman is showing off her legs that shows confidence. As long as she isn't showing of her legs in the workplace it is fine. Heels are fine unless you are going somewhere impractical. If a woman wears heels on a nature hike I might think something is wrong with her.
If I see a woman I don't know that is dressed sexy I think she is hoping to look attractive for someone. There is nothing wrong with wanting to look attractive. I don't judge her poorly for that.
If a woman doesn't dress up for me on a date, I think she just isn't that into me so doesn't really care about impressing me. I wouldn't think a woman was desperate just because she was dressed sexy. When a woman comes off as desperate it is more about the way they act.
A woman that has put work into her appearance to look attractive tells me she is most likely open to being approached. So I would be more willing to approach a woman dressed sexy for that reason. Women that want to blend into the background and not be noticed do not dress sexy. As far as starting a relationship or ending it, I don't see why the way she dresses would be a factor. After the initial approach it is mostly about personality and compatibility. That is what determines if I start a relationship or not.0