It seems to be a common stereotype that those physically attractive lack inner beauty and those with inner beauty lack being physically attractive.
Do you think(or from your experiences) a person can have both inner and physical beauty?
Is there in truth to the stereotypes from your past experiences?
Which do you have? Or are you a lucky person with both? :P
Which TRULY gets a person farther in life?
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Well I think it's over-generalizing to say that but there's a little bit of truth to it though. As I've always said, we are products of our experiences, so I guess it stands to reason that people's reactions to one's physical attractiveness will influence their personality at least somewhat. If people consistently worship you for your appearance it's easy to get a big head from it. Conversely, if you've been constantly derided for it, those painful experiences can teach you wisdom, empathy and mercy. For the vast majority of people, they fall somewhere in between those two extremes.
Even then, just because someone appears to be a jerk to you they might not really be that way all the time. People have bad days and say things they don't mean. Beautiful women get harassed a lot by guys and they may become overly defensive. Shit happens.
Personally I think I'm a pretty good guy on the inside. I'm not arrogant, self-centred or hateful and I'm definitely not stupid. As for the outside, people don't really tell me how I look one way or the other so I don't really know if I'm attractive or not. I think I look alright. I'm not the most handsome guy in the world but I don't think I'm ugly.2