about 6 months ago I let her "borrow" them. She never returned them. Saw her wearing them In FB pictures a few days ago. I want to be mature about this, I don't want there to be a fight.
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Did you ever tell her when you needed them back? I know it's polite to return things you borrowed as soon as you are done with them, but sadly many people don't and end up holding on to things until you actually talk to them and ask for it back. I've let my friends borrow lots of stuff, and very few get it back to me in a timely manner. One guy stole a bunch of CDs from me, (he claims he lost them?) another friend had some video games for years until I finally realized they were missing. Bottom line is that even though its bad on her part, it's your fault for letting her borrow them. You shouldn't just assume everyone is going to just give your stuff back. So just ask her for it back and see what she says. I don't let friends borrow stuff anymore for just that reason, I don't want to be the one who has to hamper my friends to give me back my stuff.0